what does it mean when you only want to have certain types of friends, you just want to be friends and have?

Question

people in your life you choose or accept? you only want to have certain people around you who think the same way?

plus i find myself getting angry at people trying to talk to me or be around me who i dont want to associate with....
iam of french, german and native american heratage but live in england, i dont want to stay here and i want to emigrate...but i also have borderline personality disorder and im waiting for therapy, so i cant just move away right now so i feel trapped and frustrated, because i dont want to be here in england...but i have issues to address & cannot just leave like id want...
i get angry though, when i have common low life british people, who feel they want to relate to me or be friends with me or want, for some reason to take interest in my life...this makes me angry,because i only want friends and to associate with people who are like me only & think like me...ideally i would emigrate & only have people around me i choose...so how can i deal with these

other people who approach me and feel theyy want to identify with me?

Answer 1

I like people around me who are of level of intelligence which either challenges or strokes the ego. Their sexual orientation or religion does not matter only that they are interested in similar things. One other thing that they don't get angry with another person, who disagrees with their ideas. Life is to short for that, I just walk away. Boy am I grateful for spell check and my dictionary or you would have had a hard time of reading this.

Answer 2

first thing that comes to mind is to confront her about those illegal activities. remind her of the negative consequences. you can't really call urself "best friend" if u don't really look out for each other, can u? don't do it alone, ask ur other friends to help u confront so u have a stronger case. if she persists after confrontation, then u best leave her be. only because she's her own person & she's free to do whatever she chooses. of course this doesn't mean that u will cut her loose n don't want anything to do with her anymore. u can still be her best friend by supporting her thru the difficult times, but it also doesn't mean that u have to jeopardize ur own safety for her. n throughout all this, make sure that u share what u're going through with another person to maintain sanity & innocence, just in case (god forbid) u get dragged into her problems by association. be her best friend. be smart. be careful.

Answer 3

Get over yourself. Your not above anyone but you do have a my way or the highway complex. Must be related to your personality disorder. Tell you what I won't associate with you. Not because I don't think like you but because I don't give a rats *** what you want or how you think. >:) So be happy.

Answer 4

We are all children of GOD, doesn't matter your race.
Finding like minded people - is what everyone does!
Your normal!
Join some activity you enjoy, and like minded people will be there! Follow your dreams & you will find people who share the same interests. Don't worry. Lots of opinionated people out there.

http://www.breggin.com/
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http://www.amazon.ca/Toxic-Psychiatry-Peter-Breggin-M-D/dp/0312113668/ref=pd_bxgy_b_img_b/702-5996907-8555231

Don't fall into the trap of medications.

Answer 5

You don't have to call ANY of the people you meet "friends".

Do you have an attitude?
Would anybody WANT to be your friend?
You have to be a friend right back to them--you know--there when they need you --through thick and thin--the good and the bad--all of it!

Answer 6

the word you are looking for is

RACIST

There, does that make you feel better?