Relationships?

Question

My ex and I just broke up i believe Sunday because he moved to Mississippi and he said he just wasn't happy anymore.
He then told me and my best friend ( who is a guy ) that he already had a girlfriend that lived in Ohio. I got very upset and my friend Logan ( the best friend ) that i was really sad. Then he told my ex to leave me alone and things like that. My ex and i decided to say goodbye for good. During that process my ex told me to get over him as well as i could, and soon. So, all night i talked to my friend Logan thinking of all the bad things Kyle [ my ex ] had done to me. When i woke up I had mixed feelings. Now, i am talking to a kid that I met at camp and Kyle is getting on me about it. I don't understand why though. Do you think he still loves me or do you think he just wants me to be miserable and still like him? Please tell me!

Answer 1

The biggest social problem our society deals with is that we don't understand LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!! Which your showing in aces, geeze people its not magical in its self, rats love! Bugs we don't know.... but mammals have that compacity. So understand that weather he loves you or not means ****!!!! Now what he does with that love means the world!!!!!!! And hunnie he isn't showing you any compassion and only a little passion, so hunnie it doesn't matter, let him go... geeze.... not even a decent associated, better yet a firend, and worse, I can't believe you made him your lover.... sad... not happy anymore... your reall friend doesn't like him.... still getting jeaously, yea your like the rest of us still don't understand love, so lets just say if you can see why you need to let this guy go your one step closer then the reset of us towards understanding it. If you can't don't worry your just as f'ed up, screwed up, and lost as the rest of us, enjoy!

Answer 2

You just need to get on with your life. You also need to ignore his calls or anything when he tries to intervene with your life. It wouldn't be good for you to go back to him because he told you some hurtful things and you need to respect yourself by not going back to him. I am going through something very similar right now and I can happily and honestly say that I am over him. I don't talk to him, I ignore his calls, apologies, and everything else.
By him trying to get on you about this new guy you're talking to just shows how immature he is and how he's trying to play with you. If you do talk to him again, you need to stand your ground and just tell him that you are trying to get over him and he should leave you alone.