I am really interested in this great guy and he found out about a past incident that I did and he got all mad at me. When he asked me about it I was really honest and told him now he is mad so my question is do you tell your significate other or person that you are interested in everything little thing that you have done in your past that you regret? Also how can I make him understand that it is in the past and that he is the one that I am interested in and want to move forward with him and only him.
2007-07-25 03:45:02 · 8 answers · asked by Kim H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't regret anything I've done in my past. And I never tell my significant other my past unless she asks. I'll hesitate at first to reply but if she keeps insisting, I'll tell her. If she can't handle the truth of my past, then that's her problem to deal with.
2007-07-25 03:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf and i have been together over 3 years so most of the things have come out...but still there are things he has slipped w/ and so have i even stuff we did when we were first together nothing major just hangin out w/ friends or goin places we didn't really tell each other about at the time
he knows the guys i have dated and i know his (bunch of ugly chicks lol) but after a certin point i don't think it matters any more if he loves you he will realize it was your past and he can either expect it or hit the road jack! no one has a perfect past...love is forgiving
2007-07-25 03:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely feel free to edit your past within reason.Most people who care about each other can deal with their partners past indiscretions,however if your referring to that pshycotic episode with the garden fork I would suggest you and your therapist both speak to him in a neutral setting.
Sorry, I sort of spun out there.
Everyone has done things they regret,don't allow someone to punish you for something you already feel bad about.Life is about moving forward.If he can't deal with you 'as found' maybe he's not the right guy.
2007-07-25 04:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Russh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, id rather be honest abt it. i told my current bf everything abt my past. and i dont think the guy has a right to get mad, it was ur past, its gone he's your today, and maybe even ur future! so make him understand if he doesnt understand tht i dont think hes worth it!
2007-07-25 03:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what it is. Little things, no. And, it's not because I'm hiding them. It's because they are insignificant and not anything I give much thought to. If it is something that could come back to bite you one day and affect him when it does, then he needs to know.
2007-07-25 03:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by sortaclarksville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past is past. You have a right to privacy. Just say: "I don't want to talk about it". Sounds like he wants to "own you" which is not a good sign.
2007-07-25 03:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO YOUR NOT LIVING IN THE PAST YOUR LIVING FOR THE PRESET LET THE PAST GO LIVE FOR TODAY MOVE FORWARD WHATEVER YOU DID IN YOUR PAST DOESN'T MATTER BECAUSE YOU WEREN'T WITH THEM THEN WHO CARES WHAT HAPPENED????? LIVE FOR THE FUTURE ......................BURY THE PAST LET IT GO ............................................
2007-07-25 03:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have a significant other :(
2007-07-25 04:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Je t'aime ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋