Ok i know good things come to those who wait... but i've been waiting a little toooo long now!
All i want is a good girl with a nice personality who knows what she wants in life... is this too hard to find in this modern day we're living in?
99% of girls i come across are either taken, big headed, insecure, drama queens or just plain messed up!
2007-07-25 02:11:56 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've lost hope in clubs/bars... i'm already a member of a gym! I think in the supermarkets is the best place to find a girl these days!
2007-07-25 02:20:58 · update #1
By 'good' i dont mean 'perfect' girl... it could be someone who you learn to like/love as you get to know them!
2007-07-25 02:36:33 · update #2
They are in my room with me.
2007-07-25 02:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you might be looking too hard. Where are you looking, anyway? The best way to find a "good girl with a nice personality who knows what she wants in life" is to be a "good boy with a nice personality who knows what she wants in life." Then get involved in things. Join a club, volunteer, take a class, exercise, walk your dog, go to church, or whatever you are interested in. Get involved in things that interest you, and you'll meet like-minded people. If you are lucky, you'll meet a like-minded girl. If not, then at least you'll be keeping busy! That said, if you are looking for the "perfect" girl, then you are wasting your time. No one is perfect, including YOU. So make sure you are not setting too high of standards. I don't mean you should settle, but be realistic. Good luck!
2007-07-25 02:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm a great girl but cant find a guy to fully accept that I have a child, they all want me but not him.
Now that is unfair.
And you havent been waiting, you've been looking!
I'd say that 90% of guys just want rolls in the hay no strings no relationship.
I bent over backwards for my ex, I even leaned to strip tease for a surprise for his birthday and he left me because he couldnt handle not being able to be sponateous because I need to arrange a night out instead of just going out.
Life and love will do what ever and who ever it wants regardsless what we do.
What ever will be will be, the universe will find you your good girl if your meant to have a good girl, you never know maybe you need to tame a bad girl. Dont dismiss by what you think you know about girls from clubs. Agirl you meet in a club if a facade of herself. Meet her in the street 2 days later and you'll see a difference.
2007-07-25 02:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by raknakel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe that none is perfect. some may appear good, but deep down inside, everybody has their agenda. in another perspective, there are girls that only after knowing them long enough, you will find that she has all the thing inside. (therefore, not outlook). no man are perfect either. the way the girl is depends on how you react and respond. insecure or drama are no longer the issue.
2007-07-25 02:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know what I've been looking for a guy like that too! I know what I want in life and everyone says I have a great personality. Im NOT taken, big headed, insecure, a queen....and last time I checked I've never been sent to the loony bin..........soooooo if your tired of waiting e-mail or IM me some time.
2007-07-25 02:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by nicolas~cage~luver 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
surprisingly yes it is hard to find - most girls are so focused on other things.. they fail to be themselves.. only being what they think they SHOULD be..
but there's nothing wrong with being insecure.. everyone IS at some point in their life.. and as for drama queens.. well we're girls.. it's something we do.. and cant be helped..
stop looking so much and youll find someone.. and IF youve waited so long.. you can wait a little bit longer =)
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2007-07-25 02:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're all hiding in a cave making out with each other. LOL. Just kidding. They're out there. You just have to look harder. Clubs and bars aren't the best place to meet girls. Try book stores or something. A friend of mine met a great girl in the grocery store. He helped her pick out good tomatoes!
2007-07-25 02:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that good you have an undertsand of girls and yes all women fit into one or more of those catergories you said.
its true though, the moment you stop looking you will find someone......
i gave up about 27 months ago and met a guy a month later. their are still girls thats arent taken and have a nice personality and knows what she wants..... just dont be in a rush to fine her... sorry but when its the right time it will happen........ sorry but its the truth... good luck though. :)
2007-07-25 02:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by just_jemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a great guy is just as difficult. They all cheat, lie, and only want to use you.
Then as soon as you think you're over them, they send you flowers and an apology and start the whole dang process again.
A bit bitter about relationships right now...
2007-07-25 02:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by misscarinne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm dude - you aint alone - personally irest on hope that its possible - and remind my slef - just because there is no documented sightings of a pnk nad yellow penguin doesnt mean it doesnt exist - it just means it hasnt been found yet (you cant prove something doesnt exist - jsut that it hasnt been found) -after that theres hope it could take a while tho - a lot of them reelling from all sorts of of things - then of course theres what people say they believe and how they act which is totaly diffrent (so much for belief then) .... arrrghh! o welll back to hope .....
2007-07-25 02:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Andy C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! *flaps arms around, stands on a box with a sign saying "I'm a good girl!"* There's plenty of us about!
You know what, ive thought the same thing myself about men
2007-07-25 02:18:42 · answer #11 · answered by KooKoo Moolookoo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋