what do u look for in a girl.....be totally honest is it just looks?
this question is aimed at young guys but anyone can answer
really, i dont mind
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2007-07-25 02:10:50 · 19 answers · asked by It's A Secret. Shh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like, i aint gunna say that it is all looks for me, but i would say 50% looks, 50% do i like her?
like there could be a hottie which i hav nothin in common with, or there could be a geek, who aint attractive i hav everythin in common with?
so i compramise, if i think a gril is gd lookin, i will get to know her, if she makes a gd first impression, then i will ask for her number. and hopefully get to know her more.
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2007-07-25 03:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Klick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a question for guys but with my experience (many male friends and my own opinion) ,the first you see and CAN see (in both cases, men or women) is the looks,of course.
But later when you find out how the person is on the inside, you decide if you find them attractive or not.
I would say that the younger the guy, the more it depends on the looks, but I don´t think that a guy could imagine a long relationship with someone who can´t even count to 10 :)
(I do not think that a good looking girl/woman has to be stupid.)
I think that for a one night stand it is enough to look good. But for a long term relationship, the personality, behaviour and brains is very important even for a guy :)
2007-07-25 09:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanny_S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:
1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)
Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).
Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth
2007-07-25 09:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young guys will probably look at different things than older ones. I think most guys are quite concerned with looks but if that's all there is then that gets boring fast. I think most guys like to know a girl that is knowledgeable about life and is interesting. You get attracted to someone cause some quality draws you in....
2007-07-25 09:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sinister-6000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that question ahs been asked a lot - read the other answers - there a re probably thousands by now - and they al say more or less the same thing - and the questions read very much like yours too (the usual presumnption of it being totally about looks for men - despite that a few moments thought reveals that men have minds and hearts as well as eyes)
2007-07-25 09:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Andy C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have to be stunning but i have to find her attractive first of all. After that though she has to be a nice, kind person, similar tastes to mine especially music tastes. Easy to get on with and isn't a bunny boiling drama queen. I'm a chilled out person so it really helps if she is too. To be honest being a nice person is the most important thing to me, if you're stunning but horrible to people then you can forget it. Hope this helps x
2007-07-25 09:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by icam62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 22 and you raised a good point there as when i was younger it was mainly about looks and, being totally honest, what my mates thought. Sounds crap i know but the truth. Now though, it's more about companionship and friendship, i'm a firm believer in the fact that you have to be friends first then the rest will follow. x
2007-07-25 09:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are important. I don't care what anyone says. They are definitely a factor at any rate. But of course that doesn't mean there's no hope. Personality strikes deeper than someones looks. While good to have.. they aren't the be all and end all.
2007-07-25 09:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Renshai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT can't just be looks. You have to be confident and sexy in your attitude and the way you interact. Looks only works for you first see someone but when you talk the interaction is what seals the deal. If I meet a girl who is easy to talk to and is fun to be around it's a plus if she has a cute of sexy personality too. Shallow mindless babble is a real turnoff.
2007-07-25 09:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Shinigami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you a bunch of garbo and so on, but the fact is that I don't look for anything particular about a female.
Not sex or looks will define what exactly makes me tick with females.
It would be safe to say that there must be connection in someway for me to fall for her and that could be anything from her laugh, her smiles...ect
2007-07-25 09:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important is to act like a real human being not like a robot doing everything others do! We are unique, we have to act with love and respect for the life we received as a gift...
2007-07-25 09:15:13 · answer #11 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋