Mormon wedding invite - what to expect?

Question

My nephew is getting married to a Mormon girl in a few months. I am a Christian, will I be allowed to attend? What can I expect?

Answer 1

FIRST, TO THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE MORMON, PLEASE DON'T TELL ME I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT IN THIS ANSWER.
I have lived in Utah for a total of 19 years, Mormon capital of the world. I am NOT Mormon.
If the ceremony is in a WARD, you can attend the ceremony.
If it is in a TEMPLE, unless you are Mormon in good standing and have a Temple recomend, you cannot attend the ceremony, you will have to wait in the lobby of the temple.
Mormon weddings, in a WARD, are not much different than most weddings. There will be NO alcohol, if you smoke, go outside. Alot of couples who marry in a ward, have the reception there as well.
WORD OF ADVICE. If you have NO interest in converting to the LDS (Mormon) Church, when some guests find out you are not Mormon, they MIGHT try to talk with you about sharing the "Truth about the one true church" It is NOT easy to end this type of conversation. So think in advance of nice, polite ways to end in case that comes up.

Answer 2

First, is your nephew Mormon? If not, then you don't have to worry, you can go and attend whatever. If he is, and if they are getting married in a temple, then only members who are worthy can attend the actual temple ceremony. This is just their beliefs and we should respect that because it is important and special to them and we, especially family or close friends should want them to be happy.

Second, many people have a ring ceremony and reception for those who can't attend the temple ceremony, especially if one of their parents aren't members. But, that is up to the bride and groom; this is their day and we should be supporting them.

Third, as another said, the announcement should be clear as to what you have been invited to. If not, lame, just ask.

Fourth, my experience. I am Mormon, but I married an agnostic. We obviously didn't get married in a temple, but had our wedding outside at a beautiful winery. My wife and I agreed on what we wanted and compromised based on our beliefs. We had music, food, wine, etc. It was amazing. Everyone's wedding is different and no matter what religion they can be either lame or a great time. I emphasize again, it is their day, so no matter what you or anyone invited should just be glad they were invited and should provide as much support and love as they can. (as we all know, we all need support in marriage!).

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

If they have a ceremony in the mormon temple then you will not be able to attend. In fact your nephews parents will not be able to attend either and your nephew would have to convert to be a mormon just to get married there. There rules state that only mormons are allowed in the temple. It is a sacrid place. If he did not convert then they are getting married outside the temple, in which you will be able to attend all the functions. Their ceremonys are a little different then a christains but follow the same guidelines. True mormons do not allow for alcholo, soda or hot beverages at the reception. It is in the book of mormon not to have certain things. So I would guess that would not be there. They are also very conservitive people, I would not expect to hear funky cold madina played at the reception either.

Answer 4

If your nephew has become mormon too and is getting married in a Mormon TEMPLE, then only the Mormons in good standing with be able to attend the ceremony. Generally, if they choose to get married in the temple, then they will have a large reception for friends and family afterwards.

The best thing to do, is ask if they are going to get married at the Mormon Temple or somewhere else.

Answer 5

If you are not a Mormon you are not allowed inside the temple. That is their rule. (oops didnt see you already daid that) if you are giving gifts. No alcohol or caffeine gifts such as coffee pot, wine, etc. for Mormons. You can wear what ever you would wear at any other wedding reception just not super dressy .most are just traditional cake and punch style receptions, held at private homes. . I'd go with a practical gift, . I have Mormon family members so know a slight bit about their customs. there has never been any dancing at any of the ones i have gone to and the toast was always some kind of cider

Answer 6

If he is getting married in the temple, no you cannot go to the ceremony. Most Mormons have huge wedding receptions with superlong guest lists, so this is most likely what will happen. If they have a civil ceremony in a church or other venue, yes you can attend. It's at the temples where you have to have a temple recommend to attend. However, you could wait outside the temple if you wanted to.

Answer 7

I have a close friend who's Mormon. She told me the only people allowed inside the temple during a wedding are married Mormon couples and Mormon men who have already gone on their missions. No kids, unmarried Mormons or non-Mormons. The reception is usually for everyone.

Answer 8

Okay, let me explain. Only close family and friends will be at the temple wedding. No one else! Yes, you have to be in good standing within the community, but if they have a church ceremony in their hometown then you can go. If they get married in temple only (Salt Lake City, for example), you will only be invited to the reception. If it's not clear on the invite. all you have to do is ask. Go seek out the missionaries from the local Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and ask them what to expect.

Answer 9

No, you will not be able to attend. But you might be able to attend a reception afterwards if they have one in another location.

My fiance's cousin just had a mormon wedding. we were only invited to the reception. We did not attend because it was way too far. We would have had to fly.

Answer 10

if your nephew invites you then of course you can go! im not sure about mormon weddings but just keep in mind that no matter what religion it is- it is still a celebration and should be a very happy occasion!