ok so first thing i'v had the same gf for 5 years ( since i was 14) and we(she dumped me for another) broke up 7 weeks ago. Today im goin to my friends, girlfriends , friends house cuz she's having a get together and i guess wut im askin is how do i make a really good first inpression? thanks
2007-07-25 01:20:58 · 14 answers · asked by Nanonan m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Wear something that looks good, that she hasn't seen before.
2. Walk in smiling.
3. Say "hi" to her in a friendly manner, but don't try to engage her in conversation. Give her lots of space. If she wants to talk to you, make her work for your attention a little.
4. Leave before she does. Apologize and say that you have another party to attend.
2007-07-25 01:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by jenh42002 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be polite even to her new bf. Don't talk about all those great times. If another friend brings it up you can talk but the partys not about you! Offer to come early to help cook. Or offer to come late so you can pick up the pizza. Then after the party ask if she needs help cleaning. DOn't try to do everything. Come early then party or pizza part clean. Any other order and you may come across as desperate. if theres dancing don't steal her away from her date but casually ask if you can dance "just as friends". You can tell her as you dance that while you understand that (insert name here) is special to her, that being away from her is killing you. Tell her that you'll wait for her until she's ready. (DO NOT say that you will wait forever. Don't put a dead line on your waiting. That will cause presure. You want to make her relax)Good Luck
Have Fun
I hope I helped!
2007-07-25 08:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tonx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first apologies on the break up, that must've been REALLYYYY hard.
But, honestly, in this generation guys don't really need that much of an impression, just make sure you look good, smell nice, and talk to her. The key is establishing a friendly relationship, before all that flirty stuff.
Good luck!
2007-07-25 08:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by hey hey hey i'm wus happenin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just show up. If your a really nice person you won't need to make a first impression. Dress yourself up. Not like a suit and tie. Just a nice pair of jeans and a button up shirt. Well hope I helped. Have fun!
2007-07-25 08:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lexii. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself, smile a lot, be a good listener and laugh at other people's jokes and respond to other people's conversations. Don't try too hard, just relax and have fun and show what a nice person you are.
2007-07-25 08:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So, your saying you kinda like this girl? Just make sure you look HOT! Be friendly, funny and mingle with the group. But, make sure you give her a little extra attention.
2007-07-25 08:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay try to be a star at the party, but then also show you are ignoring her, sort of like portray but don't indicate
2007-07-25 08:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by akela hu main 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself and that should be enough to make a good impression on anyone. If not then they aren't worth it anyway. Good luck!
2007-07-25 08:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself first of all, be nice, compliment her, make eye contact. Just talk, see how you like her. Good luck.
2007-07-25 08:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by ccstangfan2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself sweetie....no point giving false impressions!! Good luck!
2007-07-25 08:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋