Since i was a child, i had B--I--G fights with my parents. I tried a lot of times to talk to them rationally but they seem not to understand. They make me feel B---A---D, and i end up loosing all my friends. Thing that makes them happy.
So, my question is: Should i do whatever they want me to do for the next 2 years we will be sharing the house, try to control them by being [superficially] the person they want me to be and when i leave the house, keep a ceremonially contact with them??
2007-07-25 01:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Some day I hope you learn to appreciate your parents because in the end, only family stands by us...stop being self centered...
2007-07-25 01:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta follow the rules when living under someone else's roof. Gotta follow the rules when working at a job.
Gotta follow the rules when renting a place to live after moving out from parents.
Gotta follow the rules of society including traffic rules, etc.
Here is a partial list of what you will be needing to provide for yourself in two years.
a roof over your head,
food on the table,
utilities,
medical, dental, life, and health insurance,
car insurance,
a car,
gasoline,
clothing,
furniture,
and anything else you will need.
People out here in the real life adult world who try to live by manipulating others, don't last too long. They get fired from their jobs, evicted from their apartments, and generally lose the respect of anyone who had thought they were going to act like a responsible human being.
So don't do it to your parents, don't do it to anyone. Just don't do it.
A good idea may be going to school and working in the evenings and/or on the weekends. That way you are saving up money to move out (two years is NOT a long time to have to save up money) PLUS you are not spending time at home except to sleep. So that would take care of the problem right there of being around your parents for whom you have such respect that you want to manipulate them. No need to do that. Just get a job and go to school and you won't have time to be at home. And you'll have money enough in two years to move out. Your own money, that you earned yourself.
2007-07-25 08:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
manipulating ppl is a screwed up thing to do
just be urself but if ur under 18 n HAVE to live with them then be respectfull of their rules but dont be manipulative
be honest.
2007-07-25 08:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can--and you will fail. I've met many people who relate to others by manipulating them. They are, without exceptioion, very unhappy--and very lonely, since they never really connect to others.
They are aslo without exception selfish, ugly people--and are invariably bullies. I don't waste my time on them--andneither will anyone else with any self-respect.
2007-07-25 08:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this first:
Are you under 18 and living under their roof?
If so, you must go by their rules........
But if you are an adult, then I need more specifics to understand the problem more completely.....and be able to give you some Godly advice.
2007-07-25 08:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by primoa1970 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you do find happiness in manipulating people, have you considered a career in religion?
2007-07-25 08:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋