Is it normal to feel strange about getting back together with a former ex?

Question

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me about three months ago. We are meeting next week to talk about things, after some time has passed. I think I would like to get back with her, but I have different feelings for her. I almost feel like I would be dating her as if we never new each other, like the first time we met. But then we did date, and that is why it feels so strange to me. Is this normal?

she broke up with me, because she lost feelings due to the amount of time we could spend-she lives and hour and a half away.

Answer 1

Yep! Trying to change the reality of a situation can be quite... werid. Shoot ask the nazi skin heads how they feel when they realize there not going to win but still keep talking about nazi propaganda... ok bad example... ether way you guys can't push history under the carpet, which is exactly what your doing. You didn't even mention why you frist broke up which makes me think its a hard subject for you to talk to a person you don't know, better yet her, its VERY important. See the most important thing to most relationship, no to ALL relationships is HISTORY and how we treat it, which if we don't treat it with respect, well you know the old saying "If we don't learn form history, were bond to repeat it" Good luck! Remeber the frist part of a relationship is RELATE, so get busy relating those feelings buddy!