I'm a 25 yr old guy. Am 5'10" tall, with a 38" chest. Have never had a girlfriend as am very shy, and don't know how to talk to women to be more than friends. I've had my self confidence with women destroyed because all that women say is I'm too skinny. Even though they say I'm good looking. I don't understand...... good to look at but not good enough to have sex with? ............... please tell me the truth as this makes me feel very crappy.
2007-07-14 23:28:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start hitting the gym. Besides you're tall, i'm only 5'5'' so that's all i have to work with. And most girls would probably pick you over me based on heights. But im athletic and plays lots of sports so im really fit.
2007-07-14 23:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard a guy say that he was into super model skinny...I think an average weight with curves is what guys like.. But I'm a girl, so I'll let the guys answer :)
2016-04-01 05:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women go for height, so you've got that to start with. Try going to the gym and ask a personal trainer to help you bulk up abit. Dont start eating a load of crap as you'll end up with a belly. Try going out with you friends and im sure you will meet someone whos actually good enough for you as these women sound like total bitches and are not worth it. you sound like a nice person. good luck.
2007-07-14 23:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest with you I like a heavier guy because when he holds me in his arms or is on top of me I can get lost in his chest and arms... it's like a security thing that on the same time it turns me on...That's one reason... another reason is that the average woman usually has some meat on her, if she goes out with a guy that is skinnier that her it makes her feel self conscious....
If you don't like the fact that you are skinny, you can talk to a nutritionist and put on some weight in a healthy way, also go to the gym so you can build some muscles at the same time... I know it's hard work but hey, who said getting laid is easy?
good luck!
2007-07-14 23:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think i am in the same boat of you man..but unfortunately..i am not that focused in women at the moment cause i am so in to my career in food and beverage, where you still have the moments where you could use the softer touch...
Anyways...just don't worry..and..just be patient...if you want go to the gym as one of the other guys said to make you feel more confident, do it, but man, never change who you are inside..if the girls did say whatever they said...they are no use man...not worth it...there is many fishes in the sea..just be ready to pull in the line when you on the spot..
Good luck on you mate...hakuna matata!!
2007-07-15 00:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by chocoganesh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't mind skinny guys.. i would much rather go out with a skinny guy than an overweight guy. Maybe women can tell that you're not comfortable with yourself so do not find you sexually attractive.
2007-07-14 23:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All depends on their character, some like skinny men, some like regular ones, some prefer fat men because they feel differently when they hug them. In essence, it's appearance first, but after that, your character and habits will determine whether you love the person or not.
2007-07-14 23:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by inesp01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The women you speak about don't find you sexually attractive (to them). Don't worry, you will meet the right person, have great conversations, enjoy similar activities, and have a great time. When you meet her, and she falls in love with you, your weight won't matter. Believe me.
2007-07-14 23:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
skinny men..are the most unattractive thing i can possibly think of that can turn me off on someone...girls dont necessarily need the big 6'0 225 muscular guy..but they have to atleast have some type of meat on their bones otherwise its like being with that geek in high school who always had his underwear pulled over his head...my advice to u..is to gain atleast 10 pounds before u aproach someone..besides the whole skinny guy look sucks...only emo girls find it attractive and u know what those are like..."oh no one likes me..im going to cut myself"
2007-07-14 23:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
women want a big strong guy to protect them so that's why they don't go for smaller guys. but be happy with who you are and there are girls that like skinny guys. i have like 4 friends that prefer only small guys but i have to admit that i have more friends that like more average guys.
2007-07-14 23:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by * 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋