Do You Have Someone From Your Past That You'll Always Love for The Rest Of Your Life?

Question

Let's be honest here. Is there somone from your past with whom you think you'll always be in love? Like even years down the line after having plenty of healthy relationships, etc. is there someone for whom you've always kept a candle burning?

Answer 1

...my first boyfriend. I will love him for the rest of my life. I have had relationships after him and am extremely happy and in love with my current boyfriend. But he will always be special to me.

Answer 2

I think we all have someone that has made an impression on us that we'll never forget, someone that will always remain dear even though we're in love now and happily married.
We learn to control our emotions and feelings. This is what separates us from the animal kingdom and makes us "mankind" excuse the expression ladies.

Answer 3

yeah the first loves especially.

once liked a guy a couple of years back. and he was interested in me as well. thing is, nothing happened :( haha. and he left the place without asking for any contact number and stuff, so we just lost touch.

but if i were to see him now, i probably wouldnt be so excited anymore. but i still remember alot of stuff about him and how we had a lot of fun. haha.

brings back alot of sad and happy memories. especially since we liked each other so much but nothing happened. oh well, i guess you just move on with life :)

Answer 4

Yep, but I've learnt (after 5 years) that he is my past. I will still always hold a special place for him in my heart, and love what we had, but also know that it was in another time of our lives that it worked - not now.

Answer 5

Omg, yes I definitely feel like I'm going in that direction yes. It's a feeling that I don't want b/c it hurts not to see him but also I want to keep it b/c it can be a nice feeling and who knows I might see him again in the future :)

Answer 6

yup. but i wouldnt change a thing that has happened since we parted either. I just know there will always be a place in my heart for him....and I know he feels the same, but we parted for a reason.......and we are both in happy marriages now.

Answer 7

the past is why its called the past... i dun hav feelings for anyone in my past relationships... i am 110% devoted n inlove with only my partner for life

Answer 8

My mother, My mother would trade places with me in the "Electric Chair", nobody ELSE would do that for me, NOBODY !

Answer 9

Yes. It started out as a little crush. I was in sixth grade and became friends with this guy who was in my math and science classes. We were just friends. In fact, I would talk to him about my crush at that time. I never imagined as seeing him as anything more than a friend. The next year in seventh grade, I started to really like him. I asked him out...you know how it is when you're in seventh grade and you think it's for life. Well, the told me to ask again a week later lol. So, I did. he told me that he thought I was a really sweet person but that he didn't know me well enough to go out with me. I was fine with that. I thought it was good that he felt that way. So, I didn't ask him anymore. I still liked him a lot and we were still friends. I just didn't say anything else about me liking him to him. His friend even tried to get us to go out. It didn't work. Well, our 8th grade year, he moved away. I didn't see him for a while, but I thought about him all the time. I knew I was going to like him forever. Well, a friend and I were at a fair and I was telling her how I couldn't get him off my mind and all that and I swear at the moment I told her I missed him, I looked up and he was standing right there! Right in front of me! I went up and gave him a big hug. We talked for a little, bit. I didn't get his phone number, for some dumb reason. So I didnt see him again all summer. Then, my freshman year of high school I had to go to the school i didn't want to go to because we had moved into that district (there were two high schools in that town) Well, the second week I was there I saw him. I didn't even know he went there. Well, anyway, we started talking. He gave me his phone number and I gave him mine. We started becoming really close friends. I still like him at the time, but I had a boy friend who I really I was meant to be with. I thought I loved him. Meanwhile, me and this guy i had liked since 7th grade continued talking. We would talk for hours and hours every night on the phone until one of us would fall asleep. Well, after about a month, he started telling me that he really liked me and that he wanted me to be his girlfriend and everything. I told him I couldn't because I already had a boyfriend. He wouldn't take no for an answer though. Every night he would tell me how much he wanted to be with me. But I had already told this other guy that I loved him and I don't believe you can just drop someone you love like that. But it wasn't long until I realized that I really did love this guy who wanted me now. I couldn't tell him though. I didn't want to say it until I was positive. He never understood that though. So, I kept talking to him as a friend and I kept going out with this other guy who was really not good for me. He was much much older. I didn't care at the time though cuz I was in love. Well anyway, I eventually had to break up with him because of a lot of drama!! I had still been talking to this other guy from 6th grade though. Now when he told me he loved me I was sure i could say it back and mean it. So, I did. And i did mean it with all my heart. But now that the other guy was out of my life, this guy didn't want me anymore. We were still friends, and he never said he didn't want me. But it was just understood somehow. We would still talk on the phone for hours every night. He still told me he loved me and I still told him that I loved him. We talked about the day when we would be together. Because we were sure we would be. We talked about our distant futures together. He stole my heart. Since I wasn't with him, I would still go out with other guys, but I could never feel the same way about them as I did about this guy. Well, this went on for two more years. I would see him in the hall at school and my heart would sink. I would talk to him and look into his eyes just wondering how he couldn't see how much I loved him even though i told him everyday. I did everything I could to prove it. It finally got to a point where I was afraid to go out with other guys because it might take away all chances of me being with him ever. Finally, the end of my junior year/ the beginning of my senior year, I tried to convince myself that he really didn't love me the way he said he did. I couldn't stop loving him though. People started spreading rumors about him being gay. I defended him with everything I had because he always told me he wasn't and because i wouldn't accept that he might be because if he was, then everything he told me would be a lie and i would never be able to be with him. So, I defended him for at least a year. By the middle of my senior year, i had finally accepted that he was basically gay by all the things he had told me...especially the conversations he told me he had with one of my best friends who actually was gay and admitted that he was. So, I learned to let go, but I still haven't stopped loving him. I've told my best friend so many times that I don't think I will ever stop loving him because true love doesn't end and I love him with all my heart. If even years from now i'm happily married, I will still love this guy with my whole heart. Nothing will ever change that. It started out as a crush and turned into true unreturned love.