why is it that i keep dreaming of my boss in work ok i have a big crush on him but thats it and when i dream about him it makes have a bigger crush on him even more and i then feel the need for sex with my husband when i wake up whats all that about
2007-07-14 21:02:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
so this is my fault then i am having theres dreams all am seeing here is your blaming me for dreams i cannot control huh
2007-07-14 21:13:20 · update #1
Hi Rita
I have been feeling the same as you for some time now. I have been dreaming of my boss and had a bit of a crush on him, which, I suspect, is reciprocated. We flirt a bit (especially if we had a drink) but it stops there as we both have a very strong personal relationship with our respective partners.
You shouldn't consider your dreams and crush necessarily as a bad thing, though. Most likely, it is going to stay as a fantasy, which, as someone pointed out, is just a bit of innocent fun. As long as you won't cheat on your husband, things are going to be fine and you won't need to change job.
If something might happen between you and your boss, it's a different story, as personal and professional relationships don't mix very well.
Good luck!
LGE
2007-07-16 02:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus is my Savior 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly chillax of course it isn't your fault!
secondly confront your husband make him promise not to freak first and if he really loves you it shouldn't be a problem look for a shunt sideways or a promotion so you don't have the same boss.
drink a cup coco before bed and eat a sandwich containing lettuce, mayonaise or cheese!
then read for about an hour before you settle down
then clear your mind completly of everything that happened that day
and last but not least meditate for half an hour
then settle down remember make your mind as blank as possible!
2007-07-15 17:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushes are nice, a little distraction is all, but nothing serious. I think you really should focus on your work, rather than the boss. The danger is that the version of your boss you have in your head could 'replace' the real person. Concentrate on doing your job better.
2007-07-15 08:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband or your Boss. Better decide fast!
2007-07-15 04:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Isabelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat kippers and raw onions before you go to bed.
you will not get those dreams i assure you,
mind you will be up all night with heart burn,but do you want to stop or not.
to be or not to be that is the question,.
2007-07-15 04:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by derek b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spend 8hrs a day with him, no wonder you dream about him. It's a dead end though unless you don't value your marriage, so knock it off !!
2007-07-15 04:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because since they are the two main men in your life you are starting to see your boss *** somone you can have too.
2007-07-15 04:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by noemi m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband find another job or you'll end up doing something you'll regret.
2007-07-15 04:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should go and find another job!! And talk to a shriek about this.
2007-07-15 04:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Wizard158 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find yourself another job
2007-07-15 04:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by K8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋