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I think I have some pretty damn good reasons!!!

2007-07-14 19:39:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

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Is there a good reason? I can see why people who have terminal illnesses that cause them the world of pain would like to kill themselves. Are you one of them?

In case your answer is "No", then why not try and think about ways out of whatever mess you created for yourself? I mean, yes, death is easy. But learning how to cope with problems is a much better way. Talk to people who you trust (not neccessarily your girl-friends or guy-friends, if they are part of the problem), and if you don't have someone close you can talk to (like your parents), try to find a cousenlor at your school or call a help line. There should be numbers in your local phone directory, and there are plenty of online pages like this:
http://www.girlsandboystown.org/hotline/index.asp

It's very important that you start thinking for yourself and build up your self-confidence. That way, you can stop become the victim of your own life and start doing something with it, make it go where YOU want instead the other way around.

I'm certain that you have a lot of talents and a lot of dreams. How about trying to make them come true? Of course, you won't get things delivered to you on a platter. That's not how life works. You have to earn them, make an effort. That's often tough and frustrating, and there will be many setbacks on the way, but in the end you'll be able to reach your goals. Keep your goals realistic. Like, getting a super job later on requires good grades and good manners for example. Those are both "doable" goals, if you decide that it's really important to you. Because YOU are the one who has your fate in your hands.

I hope you'll feel better soon. Even the biggest dung-heaps of obstacles in your life can be moved if you pick up the shovel and start shoveling.

2007-07-17 18:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lee L 3 · 0 0

When u carry around enough hurt I think it's natural to consider it. If it gets to a point u can't enjoy life anymore and u can't stand being around people because they are so cold and cruel. U know they are only going to let u down . When ur best years are behind u and u realize ur life is never going to be anything like u want it. U find it self all alone and tired of not having anyone In ur life. When u feel like no one will have u and life has past u by. The loneliness becomes more than u can deal with. I think about it alot. It would be the best thing for me. I just havent gotten up the nerve yet.

2015-09-07 13:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Happy little frog 1 · 2 0

There is no good reason to kill yourself! However bad you have it. I mean I don't know what your reasons are, but I can be fairly sure that you have more reasons to live than to kill yourself. I suggest that you focus on the positives and blessings in your life. But most importantly, your anger needs to be expressed in a positive way. Talk to someone you trust or write it down in a letter. You don't have to send it but It has helped me. When I wanted to kill myself, I thought there wasn't anyone who had it worse than me but then I talked to someone who did and they were not to the point of suicide.

2007-07-14 19:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by miki 2 · 0 0

The best reason to kill yourself is to make your surviving family members want to kill themselves out of grief. Haven't you ever read the story of the von Erich family? Famous wrestlers.

2007-07-14 19:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by erin 2 · 0 0

ya..well so do i but i dont i keep on living for my family and the people i love i no its hard but there r no reasons good enough to kill urself its a cheap way out and if considered it but whats it going to hurt to live 10sec more then u did after u die that 10 les seconds of pain for ur family there is help u can get and places u can go to get help and get out of any kinda resons u have to die i promise at least try this first if u have and respect for ur self ot ur family at least give it a try

2007-07-14 19:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Est.1992 6 · 0 0

If you'd messed up your life to the point that you have to kill yourself, then at least don't mess up your life on the other side. work hard to build yourself a good life on the other side. when the time comes for you to die, you'll have no regret. decide if you want to end up i hell or heaven. then act accordingly

2007-07-14 19:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mohsen D 1 · 1 0

well, why don't you share with us those reasons? I'm sure when you write them you'll realize that your reasons are not as" pretty damn good reasons" as you thought they are. unless you are saddam hussein and you kow that youre gonna end up hunged in few minutes!!

2007-07-14 19:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by medcenman 5 · 0 0

There isnt a good enough reason to end your life over..Its the cowards way out..

2007-07-14 20:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~ Ali ~*~ 5 · 0 1

there is no good reason to kill yourself

2007-07-14 19:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just being u is good enough reason

2007-07-15 08:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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