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Question

look, my dad got remarried exactly 4 weeks ago to a girl named jessica, but the main problem is...she has 2 kids. She has 1 girl named Diana and one boy named Jay. jay is really cute, he's my age, 13. but he's annoying and i don't want any more siblings, i already have an older brother Jason and an older sister Mandy. jay always pulls pranks on me wat should i do

Answer 1

Lauren, have you sat down with your father and stepmom and tried to talk out your feelings? It might help them to understand your needs a bit more. You don't like Jay picking on you, that's alright, nobody likes to be picked on. Talk to him about it. He might be acting out a bit because he feels uncomfortable as well. It also seems that you are now the middle child. Are you concerned that you won't get as much love as you once did from your father and stepmom? If so tell them about it. I know that this is new and scary to a point, but all you can do is try to communicate with your parents and your siblings. Try to make the best of it Lauren!

Take Care

Answer 2

Maybe they feel the same about you? It must be hard for Diana and Jay too to have THREE more siblings! You can't do anything about it so it's best to look on the positive side and see the advantages of having another brother and sister. The five of you make quite a team! It's also very hard on your dad if you don't all get on isn't it? It might spoil their marraige too, so do all you can to get on together. Ask Jay why he does what he does. Talk to him, be a friend. Remember that in a few years you'll be old enough to do what you like and move out if you want, but for now, make the most of it, enjoy your youth.

Answer 3

They are married, and thats not going to change, and those kids are not going anywhere. If I were you, I would just accept Jay into the family. If you don't give a bully a reaction he is looking for, chances are he will go for another target. But if you are still having serious issues, talk to your stepmom or your dad, and they will help you out. Just thinking but maybe he thinks your pretty but your his stepsister so you can't be together. Just a thought. Good Luck!♥

Answer 4

That is life. I have three brothers and they all pulled pranks on me.

What worked for me, is ignoring them...it is hard but if you ignore them (and it many take several times) -- it will stop. He know that he can push your buttons so he will keep doing it. But if you ignore, he will get bored and hopefully stop. If not, talk to your dad.

Good luck

Answer 5

Well the simple answer is play along with him take it easy one day you will laugh about it. reminds of the when i was 7 i set a bucket of of milk on the door on my aunts bedroom (then she was 17) opened the door and milk was all over her she got angry pulled down my shorts and started spanking the crap out of me while she was peeling my my *** i peed on her.HAAAAAAA now both us crack up.

Answer 6

I've experienced similar but just give it some time. Maybe he feels like that too and when you're scared or something, you do stuff that can be annoying.

Answer 7

Lighten up and stop being a brat.....he's just trying to fit in. Did you ever stop to think he may not be thrilled with you showing up in his family either?? Your stuck with each other.....make the best of it. He may turn out to be a great friend.....if you give him a chance.

Answer 8

Yeap, get used to it , try finding something that both of u can enjoy... good luck

Answer 9

Grow up and deal with it. You can't change it.

Answer 10

beat him up