2007-07-14 18:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by steven d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I might call it an anniversary party as opposed to a reception but having a party to celebrate the marriage is always good.
2007-07-14 18:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is never a bad time to celebrate a marriage. Having it that long after the wedding takes a lot of pressure off, doesn't require as much formality, but allows all your family and friends to come together to celebrate with you. I know several couples who have had the reception much later, and it is fun.
I don't agree that you have to choose one or the other (private civil marriage, large gathering). As far as gifts, you most likely won't need the traditional household items, but gift-giving is part of celebrating in most cultures. When we are happy for people we care about, we want to give them something! So don't listen to people who think a later reception is just a tacky plea for material items.
Bottom line-it's your marriage, celebrate how YOU want.
2007-07-14 19:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sage Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tacky and rude as hell. It always comes off as saying, we need to hurry up and get married in a court house cause we're in trouble. But, we have to wait till our one year anniversary to beg you for gifts. I've been invited to a couple of these events and almost ALL of the guests spend time bad-mouthing the event. No one wants to give wedding gifts to a couple that's already been married for one year.**** But, I just read your other questions and it appears as if grandma is sponsoring your party, so you have no choice but to graciously accept the offer or (better yet) ask her if she could just make it a one year anniversary party.
2007-07-15 05:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was your original vision for your wedding? did you always imagine a big reception-you in a ball gown dress, tuxes, limos, band, seated dinner? or did you want an intimate reception-buffet style, cocktail party, form fitting gown with elegant updo? a garden reception-big tent in the yard, chapel train on your gown, tablewear that matches your wedding colors, dj, casual suits? how 'bout a beach theme-strapless tea-length dress, linen suits on the guys, chiffon dresses for the gals, sea-fare for dinner, seashell sugar cookies for favors?
it's your wedding....do it up or dress it down as much as you want. who cares if your married already? every woman deserves to play "bride" for the day. go with the idea of how you always imagined your day. my best friend married in the court and a year later had the church ceremony/seated dinner option. and you know what?? no one thought for a SECOND "omg this girl is already married, what does she think she's doing?" good luck!
just realized your a guy...ahaha. well- all that about a dress, apply it to your lady!
2007-07-15 02:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by tvelez128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically no, you should of had it within a month of the wedding, in my opinion receptions are for weddings that have the family involved the first time. just tell them you got married and that's it. i had a cousin that did the same thing. and we were hurt that we couldn't come to the wedding. sorry.
2007-07-14 18:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Linda B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure just say it's more of a 1st annivesary celebration than a reception.
have a great time!
2007-07-14 19:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by nataliexoxo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's too far away. You could have an anniversary party, though, just at your home for family and close friends.
2007-07-14 22:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I just wouldn't register for anything. That might seem a little tacky. If people bring gifts, great. If not, that's great too.
2007-07-14 18:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not? I am sure there are reasons why you couldnt do it earlier. I wouldnt call it a wedding.....I would call it a Celebration.
Good luck
2007-07-14 19:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That is so sweet! Accept it graciously! More presents, more fun!
2007-07-14 18:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Deonna R 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋