my stepmom is pretty hot and i am REALLY attracted 2 her and 2morrow it will just be me and her in the house and i dont know what i should do!! plz help me!!
2007-07-14 18:22:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you do nothing
how weird and uncomfortable would it be for you to be there, and face her and your dad each day if you tried something and she responded in a way that shamed you to the bone?
leave your fantasy as a fantasy..look else where if you want a cougar
2007-07-14 18:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a stepmom. She is married to your dad... You don't want to do anything that would damage that right? You can tell her how you feel, though that could go to ways. She would be flattered by it and you might be able to have a more open communication or she may feel weirded out by it and not be comfortable being with you alone. If the later is the case it maybe because she doesn't know how to handle it because it was never expected or because maybe she thinks the same. Either way you should not make any moves other then tell her how you feel. You need to find someone else. If all else fails then just take care of business on your own time in your own privacy. I guess it depends on what kind of person she is. Maybe she is into you, but do you want to be part the problem if your dad finds out... I don't think that would be a good thing, because you know it would never work between you two right?
2007-07-14 18:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um.. Well, obviously you can not tell her you are attracted to her. Nore can you express your feelings of desire towards her. Because not only is it wrong, but its just a crush and or physical attraction.
Maybe you should talk with a trusted adult or a counselor about it. Not your dad though. Or you could get a girlfriend and try to forget about what you feel for her.
Honestly, you can't do much except convince yourself that she is your step mom and you can't have any sexual relations with her. And hopefully this feeling will pass as you two develop a good friendship as a mom and a son should. Even if you were old enough, she is spoken for.
And even if things didn't work out with your dad and her, it would be overall wrong to do anything with her. Fight it, and try to forget. Your willpower is stronger than your emotions and urges. Good Luck!
2007-07-14 18:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by red_rabbit239 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it! She is ur stepmom which means she is a part of ur life already. And you would hurt your dad big time im guessing if you did do anything with her. She wont always be hot, just remember she is your dad's girl not yours. Its too much drama to deal with in the end. So 2morrow keep ur distance from her, and find something to ocupy ur time
2007-07-14 18:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by mekitty1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well thats probably y shes your stepmom ur dad thinks so 2
But thats really Low Get over it I mean shes ur stepmom get a life gosh
Look for a girl ur age and that u think is hot not ur stepmom!!!
2007-07-14 18:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by zoegirl021996 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if your Dad is just fat blubber let me tell you something she married him either to get away from parents or money. So when you think of her you need to think of what a shallow person she is. Remember Shallow Hall? You are also very young with lots of hormones raging. Men your age and your Father's age make wrong decisions because of hormones. Take cold showers and read some of the classics, get a head start on college.
2016-04-01 04:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house tomorrow! Go hang out with some buddies, go patrol the mall and scam on some babes your own age...anything is better than this (and I'm assuming you're totally serious, and not just looking for a laugh).
2007-07-14 18:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
post a pix up! and lets see
dont try to do anything flirty or perverted with her
be respectful to ur dads partner
dont create unwanted situations dat make her feel uncomfortable
u can look and admore her beauty but dont take it past there
it will interfere with the family and cause problems
maybe u can just get to know her better and talk with her if ur dat into her. but dont take it too far. look @ other girls shes too old for u get magazines or go find girls somwehre to get distracted
distraction dats the best way find sumtin to get ur mind off things
2007-07-14 18:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by je t'adoreTbyd03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dakota. Here's the way that it is. You have two choices. (we always have at least 2 choices in everything) A) You can take a cold shower and get a real girlfriend or B) you can do something stupid and then set back and wait for your dad to kill you.
2007-07-14 18:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go lock yourself in your room if you have to. Just don't act on any of your feelings. She's at LEAST twice your age, and your dad's wife. Think about that. And you're gonna be living with her for a while, so think about the consequences as well. That would be mighty awkward and I can't even imagine what your dad would say.
2007-07-14 18:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋