2007-07-14 18:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by steven d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
what was your original vision for your wedding? did you always imagine a big reception-you in a ball gown dress, tuxes, limos, band, seated dinner? or did you want an intimate reception-buffet style, cocktail party, form fitting gown with elegant updo? a garden reception-big tent in the yard, chapel train on your gown, tablewear that matches your wedding colors, dj, casual suits? how 'bout a beach theme-strapless tea-length dress, linen suits on the guys, chiffon dresses for the gals, sea-fare for dinner, seashell sugar cookies for favors?
it's your wedding....do it up or dress it down as much as you want. who cares if your married already? every woman deserves to play "bride" for the day. go with the idea of how you always imagined your day. my best friend married in the court and a year later had the church ceremony/seated dinner option. and you know what?? no one thought for a SECOND "omg this girl is already married, what does she think she's doing?" good luck!
just realized your a guy...ahaha. well- all that about a dress, apply it to your lady!
2007-07-15 02:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I accept as true with the others. you ought to ask her why. the real reason. You provided to pay for the marriage (and according to hazard the marriage planner) so it may desire to no longer be her unique excuse of worry and price. according to hazard she's shy and would not prefer to be a focal element (you are able to set up it so she gets much less interest - positioned on a modest gown and blusher veil; have people leap into the 1st dance after some seconds or pass it, etc). according to hazard she would not sense comfortable having her family individuals there yet will additionally sense uncomfortable in the event that they found out that she had a marriage yet they weren't invited. according to hazard she gadgets to particular wedding ceremony traditions as being dated (you are able to pass the garter toss as an occasion) it particularly is specially circumstances stressful to bear in mind that it is not in basic terms the bride getting married that day. it particularly is the groom's wedding ceremony day too. Please emphasize back how a lot you dedicated on your loved ones and it means the international to you to have all your loved ones there and additionally you'll be able to't think of sharing the main happiest day of your existence devoid of them (ok, it particularly is layering it on somewhat thick, yet you get the belief!) by ways, no longer all brides choose the flamboyant gown and massive reception. yet i'm no longer able to think of them refusing it if provided except there grow to be a real and substantial reason, like there seems to be right here. yet it particularly is in basic terms my opinion. stable success!
2016-12-10 12:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had a formal reception 4 months after our elopement. It's your wedding, your reception, so do as you like.
You could put a twist on it and have an anniversary party if you are uncomfortable with a reception so long after you were married.
2007-07-14 18:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eating, dancing, socializing.
2007-07-14 18:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
traditional is ok just dont go too over the top.
2007-07-14 22:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by rxing 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don't do this.
2007-07-14 22:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋