in a long distance relationship... over the internet actually.. when he calls me beautiful and all that nice stuff does he mean it? we only hooked up once now we found eachother on the net and decided to date.
2007-07-14 15:08:48 · 29 answers · asked by brazilsfinest0921 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea he has seen me in person we have known eachother for 3 years. except now we r more then 3,000 miles apart
2007-07-14 15:13:51 · update #1
different things work for different people. as long as both of you are happy thats all that matters.
2007-07-14 15:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by yahman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's a good idea to start a long distance relationship, whether it's online or not, especially when you guys have hooked up just once. that's the problem. there's not a good basis or solid foundation. you can't find trust just yet when all you know is that he calls you beautiful. sure, it sounds good and makes you happy but not the "go-ahead" to start a long distance relationship. give it time. don't jump into it. start off talking more, getting to know each other and then decide from there.
2007-07-14 22:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by falalafalafel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t do it, he could be the person he is but, or he could be someone he isn`t. Long distance relationships are depressing too...you don`t see the person much in person.
I knew somebody who was so nice & everything to one of my friends on the internet. She really liked him, but then found out he was cheating on her with this other girl on the computer.
Dating on the internet is also dumb because people don`t act the same as in real life. Personalities are so much more different, that if you ever did meet them, you probably wouldn`t like them.
2007-07-14 22:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a few long distance relationships and it is really hard. If he tells you that your beautiful, do you believe him? If not, then maybe you should get to know each other a little better. Is it possible for you two to hang out together? You can only get to know a person by their personality and environment. Take it slow and see what you think.
2007-07-14 22:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that you know him already but you still have To be careful with Internet relationships....
not saying that either one of you would or are doing this but hear me out....
What happens to a person that gives everything to this relationship, because a person feels as though this is the only relationship that i have... however, the other person doesn't take it that seriously, compliments them sends them E-FLOWERS and builds up this nice rapport with this person. But the other person doesn't see that relationship as intimate as the other,,, that can hurt. They can work...but you guys need to establish what the relationship means to the both of you before anyone gets hurt. remember 95% of relationships are based on communication. Hope this helps.
2007-07-14 22:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by john W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is no way of knowing that until you've spent a lot of time with him. Some people do mean it and some people don't. If he seems overly generous with the compliments than perhaps he isn't as sincere.
But if you've met in person and you enjoy each other's company enough that you want to stick with it, I see no reason why he wouldn't mean it.
2007-07-14 22:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Faerlyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend did that. They talked for a year on the internet, and ended getting married. Now a few months into it they are not so happy. I think in ways they both painted the pic with a little more color then it really has.. But you know anything can work. Listen to your heart on this one, you know best!
2007-07-14 22:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys use that like they drink water hey beautiful blah blah blah. Know your beautiful and loved by god then you wont fall for a guy you haven't met or had a real conversation with,be careful on the net and with guys they will say anything to get what they want!
2007-07-14 22:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hooked up once? You can tell a lot from an initial meeting but all this is fake. You really do need to have more face to face contact. The internet is good but you cannot see face reactions ect.
Good luck with whatever you do.
2007-07-14 22:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Phillip P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That actually JUST happened to me!!! (So i suggest u listen to me carefully)
I met this guy at a pool down in Florida when we were both visiting our grandparents for a couple of days. he told me i was pretty & we both flirted and talked alot for a while. Then he had to go bak to New Jersey & i had 2 go bak 2 Virginia. Now we talk on IM & on the phone,he still tells me i'm pretty & sayd he thinks about me a lot (but i'm not going in2 any more detail about that)
I beleived him whole heartedly, Y wouldn't he mean it??
2007-07-14 22:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats scary. I hope you be safe.
Not tryin to discourage you, but you have to be careful, its bad enough you got preverts all in people face but the internet is roaming with weirdos. Love has no limit but you just dont want to do nothing harmful.
2007-07-14 22:18:17 · answer #11 · answered by Delightful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋