I can't seem to stop thinking about it even though it's resolved. We were both so upset because it had to do with insecurity and trust issues. We talked it over but I still cant get it out of my mind. How do I get over it?
2007-07-14 13:54:09 · 23 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every relationships have arguments, it's not healthy if you don't. Realize that ti was a step up for you in your relationship, that you've reaches passed the lovey dovey stage and have hit a true area. If you've talked it over with him and smoothed it out then everything is ok. ^^" Just work on your issues a little bit more.
2007-07-14 13:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by chris_redfield267 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a little time but you will get over it. The key is to know it's resolved and that you all care about each other. You should be happy and take pride in the fact that the two of you could talk about it even if it was an argument. The thing is you were able to work threw it. Now you all just have to abide by what each of you said you will do. That may take some time to see if that happens because you have to experience that. It always takes some time to get over a fight with someone you love. The key is you will get over it, you just need to give it a little bit. Try to spend some time together, dinner a movie, anything. That will allow some good feeling to replace the bad ones you are feeling now. Just remember it is resolved, so there is no need to bring it back up.
2007-07-14 14:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be thankful things worked out for the best & everything is OK now. If it upset both of you, chances are it won't happen again. Try to put it out of your mind & go forward. This was just a learning experience, & we all have them when we're in relationships. Be glad you did talk it over & it's resolved. Don't let it control your mind & just let it go. By holding on to it, you're just making yourself miserable unnecessiarly. Let it go & you'll feel much better for it. We learn from our mistakes & then they weren't done in vain. Some things like this just make a stronger bond between couples. Put the past in the past, & go forward...
2007-07-14 14:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get over it, you need to really think about it.
you gotta think of that argument in a positive way.
be glad it already happened because its going to happen anyways. so the next tiem u guys have an argument, you would know how to resolve it without anyone getting hurt or feeling bad. thats the only way u can get it out of ur mind. actually think about it. argumetns n problems are bound to happen in a relationship, and the first is usually worse. as both of ur love matures, u guys will be flexible to each other. n be smooth
2007-07-14 13:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by luciferstatus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat Ben & Jerry's. I swear tha stuff is like crack to me. Whenever I feel down, thoes boys can always bring me back up.
After you eat, think about what he said, what you said, and how you want to fix it.
You really just need to talk to him, if you think that wount help, then you must have not been in that healthy of a relationship to begin with.
Just talk it out, crying never solved anything.
Unless you're a baby.
2007-07-14 13:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not trust him then there is the problem. Trust in a relationship is very important. If he has done something to make you not trust him, then that will always be in the back of your mind. Your only human girl !
2007-07-14 13:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Eva Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me the best thing to do, in this kind of situation, is to enjoy yourself. Go shopping, hang out with your friends, see a movie. Since you guys have already talked and it didn't help talk it over with friends or a close family member :-) Hope this helps!!!!!
2007-07-14 14:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by ashley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't get over it than it must of hurt you allot, so I think you should talk to him so maybe you need to hear him say his sorry again, I mean if you can't get over it it's only gonna cause problems in the future:)
2007-07-14 14:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck I'm dealing with the same issuse with my b/f know it's not me it's him,sometimes you just don't know to do. I feel so thing are not worth the problem.
Annie
2007-07-14 15:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it.. because if this argument was really resolved, you wouldnt be feeling the way you do.
also, try to be optimistic. atleast you guys didnt break up
2007-07-14 13:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋