I am the only one I know who hasen't had a bf yet. im 13, skinny but not too skinny, 5'3, nice curves, small nose, oval shaped face, and dark blue eyes. everyone always says im so pretty and beautiful and stuff. and guys r always hollering at me and making comments, whistling, etc. but they never ask me out! is there something wrong with me? or do the guys just wanna look at me but not go out with me?
2007-07-14 13:25:02 · 35 answers · asked by ♥ Amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, I'm one of the few girls in my class who are virgins...[although most of my friends are still virgins]
2007-07-14 13:36:20 · update #1
Guys your age are stupid, awkward, and shy.. give it a little time.. I was so scared to ask a girl out when I was your age because I thought if she didn't like me she would never talk to me again. Guys are insecure like girls and think that you will say no and laugh at them.. give it some time...
2007-07-14 13:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're 13. 7th grade, right? Why are you worried about it? Jeez, you have 70-90 years of your life to go. Why do you have to be paired up with someone the minute you put your Bratz dolls down? The right guy will come when you're ready, not because you're desperately seeking him, and there's not a darned thing wrong with you. Besides impatience. Give it another 10 years and then if no one has asked you out, come back and ask us then. 13!! Jeez! Next you'll be complaining that the boy in the next basinette in the hospital nursery didn't share his pacifier with you--is something wrong?
2007-07-14 13:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are too pretty and that intimidates guys. Also, guys are not really into dating until age 15 or 16. If you really want a boyfriend just go up to a boy about 14 that has been giving you some attention and is not so hott that all the girls are falling into him and say, "I decided you are my boyfriend, I want you to call me tonight and if you don't call me I'm going to call you." He will not know what hit him, but he will not tell you no. You may have to lead him around by the nose, but you will have your boyfriend.
2007-07-14 13:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13. You don't need a boyfriend right now. They aren't a new accessory you know. Boyfriends aren't that great. I started going out with boys when I was 9 and it was the stupedist thing I have ever done. Focus on the good things in life like your friends, family and education. When the time is right, you can think about relationships.
2007-07-14 13:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im 29 and have never had 1. only because i dont believe in committment without marriage. i dont believe in dating one person for years. when i was younger i didnt care to try and be tied down, but now that im older im only in the market for a husband. you are way too young to be having a boyfriend. i remember dropping by 12 yr old niece off at middle school(6th, 7th and 8th grade) last year and two girls were going in the school both pregnant. all i could think was how sad babies having babies. bf/gf stuff is just not something a 13 yr old needs to have on their mind.
2007-07-14 13:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Thyk L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweety but you dont need a guy that is "hollering" and whistling at you. Take your time, if youre as pretty as you say you are, the good guys will eventually come, if you rush it, youll end up in a relationship that you really shouldnt be in. besides your only 13.
2007-07-14 13:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by urb3stkpts3cr3t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just date to date. Wait for the right catch, your so young you have no idea what's ahead of you. High School, College. In fact, focus on getting good grades to get into an ivy league school and that's where you'll meet your mate. Not on the streets like some tin can. The better your environment (school, work, friends) the better class of people you'll attract. Right now, your still finding yourself.
2007-07-14 13:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only smart one at 13 not to have a bf. sounds like your getting plenty of attention and complements and you should leave it at that. your still pretty young to have a bf,regardless of what all the other kids are doing. if they all jump off a bridge,do you?hopefully not, you use your brains and just know that you are doing the RIGHT thing by not having a bf at 13. just chill with the girls and enjoy your beginning years of being a teenager. you have plenty of time to do the date scene,but not now.
2007-07-14 13:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by oldiesbutgoodies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure youre quite beautiful, but, come back & talk to us in about 5 years. 13 is to young for relationships. Your parents should be explaining the facts about sex to you right now if they havent already, you should know about the consequences of having sex, such as, sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy, abortion, heartbreak, the fact that your young life is gone should you have a baby right now & choose to raise him or her, the pain of loss if you choose to have the baby, but then let it go for someone else to raise, the fact that all women who have abortions later contract breast cancer or cervical cancer? Sex is not a game for children to play!@ The consequences are far to great! So slow down, you'll get married soon enough, & then you'll be able to enjoy your relationship the way it was meant to be!!!
2007-07-14 13:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a BF at 13. Just cuz all your friends have one, doesn't mean you need one. Get a BF now, and how knows WHAT kinda activities you'll be doing at 16. That's too much of a responsibility.
2007-07-14 13:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋