so i have a decision to make.....two guys....first one: my bf...7 months younger than me, had to move to alaska, we have trust issues, and i feel like he doesn't care : but when i'm around him everything seems right in the world>>>guy 2: lives only 3 hours away, my age, has so many things in common with me, compliments me, and makes me feel special: but i'm not sure if breaking up w/my current bf will be worth him........what should i do.....
p.s. the second guy kissed me and i cant say i hated it....and when i told my bf about the kiss he didnt even care and i felt like he didnt care about me....
2007-07-14 13:12:21 · 7 answers · asked by jamie_lynn_1109 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Surely you dont expect strangers to tell you if you should dump your boyfriend or not. Ive never understood why people ask these kind of questions....we don't know any of you. ??
If you are confused about who you want to be with than maybe you shouldnt be with anyone....be single.
2007-07-14 13:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by emily66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question!
"and when i told my bf about the kiss he didnt even care and i felt like he didnt care about me...." would say to me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. I wouldn't stay in the boyfriend relationship for any reason. Whether or not you choose to date the other man should have no affect on not being with someone that doesn't care for you. Maybe some time on your own will help clarify what you want from a relationship?
2007-07-14 13:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, so you ex bf is in Alaska, where are you located? and you have already kissed another guy. Long Distance relationships do not work........ especially when the guy does not care about you kissing another guy. so get over the 1st guy and go for the 2nd guy...... and tell the 1st guy first, end the long distance relationship, as it seems it is already ended...
2007-07-14 13:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by ~ANGEL~EYES~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself. If you leave your boyfriend you feel as though it won't be worth it.
But i doubt that it is the truth. Second man seems a lot better choice than the first. Go with your heart.
2007-07-14 13:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump your bf and go with the other guy. he didnt even care that nother guy kissed you and that shows he doesnt care much about your relationship.
2007-07-14 13:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump guy 1. Guy 2 seems to care..give him a chance....
2007-07-14 13:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf probably dosen't care you kissed another guy because he probably hasn't been faithful either.
2007-07-14 13:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cardinals fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋