I'm beginning to really dislike my sister?

Question

Well, I don't want to say hate because that's a really strong word and my mom does not like me to say that and stuff...

But she dosen't understand because she grew up with no siblings, and she always expects us to be nice towards one another, and I understand that.

But my sister is one total b****, she changed her personality ever sinced we've moved into our new house. She's now overweight ( not extremely, but you know meat on her bones),
inconsiderate, and spiteful. I'm exactly the oppisite...

She is so mean to my parents, she always demands stuff from then even when they don't have extra expenses. I'm always considerate of my mom, like when we buy stuff I always like to get cheap stuff so she can save money.

And she treats my dad like a taxi for her and her friends forcing him to take them left and right all over the damn place. She is soooo inconsiderate its crazy...

I'm 15 yr old male, who gets good grades and she's 13 with bad grades now....

Some advice plz?

Answer 1

The bottom line is unless your parents take action and discipline her theres not much you can do.
You might wait til shes in a decent mood and tell her you really miss the nice sister you use to know.
Some people just turn out self centered especially if the parents are willing to cater to their whims.

Answer 2

Well first of all like you said she is 13 shes just reached her teenage years where emotions and horomones will be changing left and right as far as her wanting everything and your parents doing everything for her,your parents are always giving and giving instead of laying out some rules or limits so the more your parents dish out the more she takes and the more she expects it.

Answer 3

She is family and that's what families are for the good and the bad. I think she turning into a spoil brat and your parents will realize it soon. I have the problem at home too only mine is two sisters and they get wherever they want even a vacation in their dream place.

Answer 4

Wow that's the total opposite with me and my brother im 13 and im really nice and i get good grades. and my brother's 15 and acts the same way your sister does.

What i do with my brother i ignore him because i know one day hes going to get yelled at cause parents only can take so much ,ya know?

But you could try and talk to her i tried with my brother he never listens.

Answer 5

She will grow out of it.... maybe you need to sit down and discuss this with your parents. Be as nice about it as you can, but express that it's been bothering you and that they really need to take control of her trying to control THEM. Tell them to step back and realize what she is doing all the time that is disrespectful. She is still young, but she should not be that disrespectful no matter what puberty is doing to her and no matter HOW bad she wants to be independent. She needs more then ANYTHING to learn respect for her elders....

Tell your parents that.... tell them that you see that she seems to disrespect the very people who brought her into the world and it really bothers you.......

Answer 6

Hmm..you seem to be a smart kid so try to remember that she is your younger sister. She just needs more attention maybe because she feels insecure about herself. You will not help her by hating her like that. I know its not easy but try to be nice to her and try to tell her that she is not the only kid in that family that she could be more considerable.

Answer 7

Tell them to make her walk where ever she wants to go. She might be acting like that because she doesn't like that she has gained weight.

Answer 8

jst be decent wid hr. u dnt hafta hang around wid hr. u hv ur self-respect n dignity. jst ignore n avoid hr, subtly.
meanwhile focus on ur lyf n ur own work!

Answer 9

u hav 2 kill her with kindness

Answer 10

Get used to it, pal I have no idea why they are so mean, but they are!!!
Wait till she has a baby and her baby is mean to you!!!