i love mah bf i really do...But he wants me to stop talking to this guy that's JUST mah friend...i dunno wut to do...im tring to make thinghs work with him...but if he loved me as much as he sais he does would he makes me chose?..♥♥♥
2007-07-14 12:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
exactly; if he really loved you, that means that he would respect your opinion and listen to your side. it should also mean that he wants nothing than the best for you, and for you to be happy. dont let him put you on lockdown like that.
2007-07-14 17:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Shane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't doubt the fact that your boyfriend loves you. It seems as though your man suffers from a jealousies issue. He's feels threatened by your friend weather he admits it to you or not. But he still should not make you chose. You should tell him that he needs to trust you. Because without trust no relationship is going to last. And as far as your friend is concerned, Friends are forever and boyfriends will come and go. If this guy is your Mr. Right then he will be alright with your friend, if he tells you that you have to chose between the two of them, chose your friend. I've learned for personal experiences that friends are very important. I chose and ex of mine over my friends and now I have an ex and no friends. Just remember that every sixty seconds that you spend unhappy is a minute of happiness that you will never get back.
2007-07-14 19:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself, honestly, are you doing anything to give your boyfriend the impression that you might be more than friends with this other guy? Is there any unintentional flirting going on? Does this other guy harbour feelings for you or does he by any chance want to get into your pants? If you can honestly say that you are friends, and just friends, with this other guy... and you honestly believe he feels the same... then you have to deal with the fact that your boyfriend has trust issues... where do these issues come from? Can you discuss this further with your boyfriend? Surely he is reasonable enough to give you an explanation for his request?
Hope it all works out.
2007-07-14 19:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by BellyD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is really insecure about himself...or maybe you are innocently flirting with this guy....Talk to him and ask him he reason why.....assure him that no one will ever take you away from him that he has nothing to worry......also cut back on the ti me you spend with this other guy and if your boyfriend is just not having it then you are going to have to decide...Good luck!!!
2007-07-14 19:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by viry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell ur bf, that if he loves you he should trust you,and that he is the guy 4 you, tha this other guyis a friend. dont let him make you choose, you are right, if he really loves you he shouldn't try and make you.
2007-07-14 19:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by voiceangel17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO..definetly no...if he says he love you, he shouldn't be
telling you what to do...or how to chose your friends...or anything..
if he does love you he wont care who you hang out with but the
person he truly care and thats you be cause he trusts you.
2007-07-14 19:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by snc_diaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he wouldnt. and dont let him tell you who you can be friends with even if it is a guy. Tell him he needs to trust you or there is no relationship. if you would start letting him control parts of your life he'll probably get worse. good luck girl.
2007-07-14 19:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-14 19:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key..love..
I'm serious.u need to just sit with him and show him that u love him only and there can be no one else in the world except him...
2007-07-14 19:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by chaingang325 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about you take remedial English classes and repost the question with proper grammar and spelling?
2007-07-14 19:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋