Can men & women truly be happy if 1 or the other can't satisfy them sexually.
Be honest no 1 see's or knows who you are
2007-07-14 12:15:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is better when both the guy and girl love AND want each other.
If sex is the only thing cementing your relationship together, then sorry honey, it's not a relationship at all.
2007-07-14 12:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I can be truly happy if my partner became unable to satisfy me sexually, as long as I knew the reason why (stroke, medication, surgery, accident) and he was able to accept that I loved him no matter what.
Sex is an important part of a relationship but it is not the only part, and I feel sorry for those of you who would dump a wonderful person because you didn't get your satisfaction when you demanded it.
2007-07-14 12:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sexually compatible, that'll probably really catch up to you someday. That's why the ideal situation is to be able to live together first -- or always.
MORE than half of America's couples are unmarried now, and just living together. A good choice, since more than half of all *marriages* end in divorce, and those are expensive and -- avoidable.
2007-07-14 14:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion is NOPE. Sex is a very big and important part of a mature and loving relationship - so if I was not sexually satisfied I would not be able to stay with that person - luckily I do not have this problem with my current bf. we have been together a yr (tomorrow) and it is always amazing :)
2007-07-14 12:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by brandi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if its sex, you cant be truely happy for any lasting time either way, When its about the heart everything else will come into the right way and true satisfaction. Don’t define yourself by whether or not you have a boyfriend, because Jesus is the only Person who offers the unconditional acceptance that your heart craves. Your true identity is a beautiful, celebrated, daughter of God (Isaiah 62:3-4).
On the other hand, the affection of a bad boy is always performance-based. Jesus, however, sacrificed His life to love you without expecting anything in return. Your desire to feel cherished and complete can only be met by Christ (Colossians 2:10). If you do not learn to get your need for love met in Him, then your heart can be vulnerable to a bad boy’s charisma.
In addition, human relationships only experience intimacy when both parties sacrifice for each other. By definition, a bad boy is unwilling to offer you sacrificial love. So don’t fool yourself into thinking that you are immune to his lack of integrity. You must be willing to walk away from a man who is unwilling to sacrifice for your needs.
Also, don’t attempt to fix a bad boy’s character flaws. Only Jesus Christ can change a man, and it generally takes years to see real improvement. Change is possible, but a man must be willing to surrender himself to God and take action. First John 4:19 says, “We love, because He first loved us.” This verse reveals that a man’s ability to love a woman is only found in the life that Jesus offers to live through him. A real man knows that he can do nothing apart from Christ (John 15:5). Therefore, ladies, reserve your heart for a guy who will rely upon Christ to love you.
Bad boys may be more common than men with character, but waiting for a man with integrity is worth it.
best to you and integrity too-John 3 worked for me
2007-07-14 12:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope, I don't care what anyone says, sex and appearance are important in a relationship. Yeah, you can be in love but if you're frustrated after sex over and over again, or if your partner does something that constantly turns you off, the relationship will not last.
2007-07-14 12:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Conflict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest. I can't speak from personal experience, but even though sex is great, there's alot more to being happy than just that.
2007-07-14 13:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, NO. But my priorities, needs, and wants differ from... well... probably everybody. I know people that are content with a "life partner". I personally need passion in my life. And I know myself... if I cannot get that deeper connection of sensuality and sexuality in my relationship, it will not last too long.
2007-07-14 12:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by SubNRG 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
love is important. But so is having a good time, if one or the other person isn't getting what they want sexualy thay should say so. if they still arn't getting it its over
2007-07-14 13:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think no, but that is only my opinion. Intimacy (sex)is a part of a relationship, not number one, but it is important.
Best wishes
Sunshine
2007-07-14 12:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋