I'm a hindu girl in love with a muslim boy.Our parents wouldn't except this and he broke the relationship for that reason.A few weeks on,we met up alot for a couple of weeks and ended up closer than we were before.He told me he loved me and we started going out again.He then had to go abroad for a month.
I am unwell and am undergoing treatment through this time. He has made a point to talk to me everyday, but it's been me calling and on his time.I know that i shouldn't be with him but can't stop thinking about him. I've caught him cheating before we broke up the first time.And now with him away he is not affectionate with me at all.Before being so close by he would call me by a pet name and say he misses me.But despite being in contact he is so distant with me.
I have cancer and feel that i am being selfish in expecting him to be there with me and wanting affection.I think there may be someone else and don't want to stand in the way.How do i forget him?is he messing with me?
2007-07-14 12:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't sound like he's very caring, if you ask me.
Not somebody you should waste your time on.
Especially if he has already cheated on you, now you have a trust issue on top of him not being very caring.
So what could be so good about him?
You really deserve better.
Don't settle for less than what will make you happy.
And happiness should not come with a price.
You really should just move on and forget about him.
And when you have trouble forgetting him, pull this question up that you just wrote and ask yourself "is this really what you want"?
Probably not ;)
2007-07-14 12:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about illness.
Based on what you write, he is definitely not good for you.
First of all, you guys have different religion and it sounds like it is
a big obstacle. Not only his parents are opposed to your relationship, he himself doesnt believe in it an is clearly is not willing to fight for it . It is really bad sign.
The second big concern is that he already cheated on you. That is awful.
I imagine you are feeling weak an vulnerable right now, but believe me you dont want any more aches and pains in your heart, especially from this guy, who clearly doesnt love you or respect you.
2007-07-14 12:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the truth and just don't want to accept it. This relationship is going nowhere, and you have enough to worry about right now. Concentrate on getting well, and then you can find someone who will love you and who won't cause all these problems. Where there is no trust, there can be no love.
2007-07-14 12:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is just minor paranoia, please don't worry.
everything is fine, it's just your illness that is getting you to think he is messing with you.
he sounds like a very sweet boy and even if you are distant from each other, he loves you and he's trying to let you know that.
:]
<3
2007-07-14 12:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by lala 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You already asked this.
2007-07-15 00:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lily R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol hindu lol....what does religion matter....lol hindu....sorry its just so funny lolll
2007-07-14 12:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by ireallyreallyasorry 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no he's not messing with you
2007-07-14 12:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by nightryder28 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋