If I get a fair number of guys in need I will reveal the last resort to get her to change her mind.
2007-07-14 09:49:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No girly-pies need answer, this is a ? for guys.
2007-07-14 09:50:31 · update #1
Momma, the 'last resort' is to be reserved for emergency use only.
2007-07-14 10:05:10 · update #2
Many of you are mistaken, no spawn of mine has ever made it full term.
I am simply offering some helfful information to any guys who might be in need.
2007-07-14 10:07:55 · update #3
Tell her u hav some terrible disease.... a genetic disease.... tell her rite away.
GO !
2007-07-14 09:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by novembr 5 · 1⤊ 11⤋
Wow I understand that you might not want to be a father. However there is something called prophylactics (condoms) and had you used one you would not have had to worry about your girlfriend being pregnant and let alone refusing to get an abortion. I will have to disagree with you on this one. Next time you decide that you don't want any children USE A CONDOM!
What if your father had pressured your mother to get an abortion would you be so quick to have your girlfriend get one? Or what if it was your sister?
It was your and hers responsibility to protect yourselves while being intimate and quite frankly you are lucky that she is just pregnant and that you don't have some type of sexually transmitted disease or worst HIV or Aids.
Take responsibility for what you have done and step up to the plate and support her and the child she is going to give birth to. I don't think it is fair that you ask her to abort an unborn child that did not commit a crime to you or anyone else. The only crime that has been committed here is the fact that you were irresponsible and now you want this innocent life to pay for your negligence.
Charlie
2007-07-14 17:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Why would you want guys to talk their girlfriends into getting abortions? The guys shouldn't care one way or another. They aren't the ones pregnant, the ones who have to watch what they eat and drink and make sure they can get good health care, they aren't the ones who have to deliver the baby and they can simply walk away and leave the woman to raise the child herself. Sadly the men don't have to change a thing in their lives if they don't want to. They don't have to worry about child care, supporting the baby, or taking care of it 24-7. No one even knows if a guy is a dad or not. It's the girl who every one just has to look at and know that she is pregnant or see her with the child after he or she is born.
Guys if you are trying to get your g/f's to have an abortion, type in abortion pictures in the search bar and look at some of the pictures. I don't think guys realize how fast babies begin to look human. If you don't want to be a parent then fine, have the child and give it up for adoption.
2007-07-14 17:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure millions of guys have went through this. But very few of em are here. Anyhow I don't know if your question is legit or you're just a troll.
If it's legit, I don't know why so many women are criticizing you as a monster. When other girls come on here saying they're thinking of abortion, people usually are much more supportive and offering of different kinds of help.
2007-07-14 17:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force a woman to have an abortion. Simple. Its a choice she has to make on her own, I would expect any reasonable man to understand that. It took both of you to play, now its time to pay. If I was pregnant and I wanted to keep it and the boyfriend didn't want it, then I'd tell him to get lost, its that simple, I don't need a man to help me take care of my child. I don't believe in abortion for "just because" reasons. I believe in it if I was raped, or if the child or myself will die if it is born anyways. Men don't seem to understand that an abortion can do more harm then good. If a women has too many, or even just one, she might never be able to have a child again, think of it that way.
2007-07-14 17:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by shjchica 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you shouldntve knocked her up moron! learn to keep it in ur pants and this wont happen...but ya live and learn...hoopefully u WILL learn from this esp if u have to pay child support...and to be quite serious threatening to leave her or leaving her wont change her mind...its her choice its her baby and its HER DECISION not yours...and to be quite honest leaving her is probably the best thing you could possibly do she'll be more happy and the kid will be better off..my ex left me when i was 4 months and i kept my son and it was the best thing that ever happened to me so do urself a favor and move on or take up ur responsibilities but knowing "most men" you most likely wont then she'll finally see she's better off without u and dont "need" ya after all...esp after the baby comes...this baby was givin to her for a reason and he/she will show and give her more love then any man ever will
go get a life! they have a sell going on at walmart buy 1 get one free u should invest! and stop breeding
2007-07-14 16:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Landonz Mommie 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It is easy for you to say......you won't be the one with the highly increased risk of different types of cancer. You won't be the one with the chance of never being able to give birth again. Abortion ain't no picnic. It's major surgery and one of the riskiest. As long as you got to stick it where you wanted, you don't really give a **** about anyone else's well-being, do you?
2007-07-14 17:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by mel1026 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you asked the question in the wrong part of the message board guys are rarely seen in this section lol i am interested in your last resort though so tell me
2007-07-14 17:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by momma 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry buddy you asked it on a public Q and A so we can all answer on this. If you knock a woman up and she chooses not to abort then it is your responsibility as a MAN to take care of that child regardless.
2007-07-14 16:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Indiana Raven 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Seriously you are not a man if you need suggestions on how to convince your girlfriend to murder YOUR baby. You need to grow up and take responsibility for your actions. I hope she sees this and dumps you and takes you to court for child support. Even though if youre this irresponsible you probably dont work to make any money.
2007-07-14 17:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by justme 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
What on Earth is it that has possesed you to think that girls should commit murder because some guy has asked her to?
You're an idiot!
It's pretty simple. If a guy doesn't want the responsibility of being a father, then they shouldn't be having sex.
Problem solved!
2007-07-14 16:52:47 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 9⤊ 2⤋