Ok, So I meet a girl about a year ago, and from the day I saw her I knew she was something special. The problem I had though was that I was moving to Florida, so we never actually got the chance to hook up. Anyways, I just came back to California for vacation and I meet up with this girl again. We went to Six flags, and I must say I had a very great time, especially with her being there. We had our times where we held hands, hugged, I gave her a peck in the cheek, but nothing to big. The problem I'm having is, I feel something very strong for this girl, remember since the day I meet her I knew something was special, and just talking to her just makes me happy. Well, my feelings towards her grew a lot. I mean, I still talk to her in Florida, so don't think I just recently started liking her again. My question is, should I tell her what I truly feel for her? Should I not risk the relationship as friends we have now? Is this just a crush or something bigger? Any help would be great.
2007-07-14 07:01:30 · 12 answers · asked by gja88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should be honest with her. if she feels the same about you - great! if not, at least you know where you stand so you don't waste your time.
2007-07-14 07:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by TLC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her how you feel. If she held hands with you and hugged you, then she must have feelings for you too. Yes, there is a risk that she wouldn't want to start a relationship - but, if you don't ask, how will you know her answer? Besides, if you don't ask, you'll never know whether your relationship can move to the next level - and will you settle for being just friends? Good luck!
2007-07-14 14:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Salvage1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning to be back in California anytime soon, like to live, then tell her how you feel. If you are staying in Florida for the rest of your life, then don't risk getting her hopes up just to disappoint her. It sounds like she really likes you and wants something more. Long distance relationships are hard, and if there is no way you two will get to be together, then you are hurting her and you by telling her how you feel.
2007-07-14 14:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should just go with the flow and your feelings for her will just flow and she will know how you feel for her by that. Don't mess up the friendship you have now with her and you can tell her that you would like to take your friendship a step further into a relationship later. Us women we like to know that we have a friend first then move on beyond friendship. hope this helps
2007-07-14 14:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by mskash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like something bigger than a crush to me you to sound really close. i think you should tell her how you feel whats the worst that could happen its doubtful she wont be your friend anymore, she may well feel the same it sounds like she might! i say follow your heart these feelings sound way to strong to ignore. good luck to you x
2007-07-14 14:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her your feelings for her. How will she ever know how you feel if you don't tell her? That wouldn't stop a friendship, if she is a real friend anyway. Go on, be brave. Tell her today.
2007-07-14 14:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you like her. If she says she doesn't like you back then tell her that you don't want it to effect your friendship because it means more to you than anything else.
" Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game"
2007-07-14 14:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by !*SoMeOnE_To_CaRe*! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always tell people how you feel. You never know from one day to the next if they will be here or not. Tell her how you feel!
2007-07-14 14:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Aiden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can really say is if there's no chance of u to being together, don't bother, you'll just end up breaking her heart, but that may not be the case, depending sorta on how old you are
2007-07-14 14:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet <3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should, i don tthink she will break up her friendship with you. my best firend liked me before, and it was kind of akeward, bur we still talk and he is still my best friend. please trust me and do it, or you'll never know the answer........... i had the same problem you have, i never told the guy (i am in love) my feelings , and now i lost him
2007-07-14 14:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by yoyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋