Well i went to school with this guy 5 years ago, we were ok friends and he was a very nice guy. It was gr 8 tho, but i recently got back in contact with him and yesterday we hung out (just the two of us) at a billards bar, and we were talking about the old days and making conversation right. He seems really shy, but hes really cute and nice and wow body lol. Well im definatly interested but im not sure if he is, in my head because he was really shy he likes me right? or is he shy cause we havent seen eachother in 5 yrs? im kind of confused, i made our first outing at the billards bar so we can talk and do something (play pool) but i want to go out with him again. Any suggestions on how i should go about asking or things we should do? or should i wait untill he asks me to do something? so maybe that way i can see if he is interested?
2007-07-13 17:55:46 · 6 answers · asked by Tash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long should i wait for him to ask me out? if he doesnt after a couple days should i ask him out?
2007-07-14 17:07:38 · update #1
Shy normally means shy by personality, How was this boy 5 years ago?If he wasnt then you have a perfect opener by saying i dont remember you as being so shy?Tell him that you feel shy asking him out again...let see what happens
2007-07-13 18:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make some conversation about old days and say u missed them and just say casually that u r glad that u ran into him, he will definitely smile,that's ur sign just ask him 'what about u"it will catch him off his guard if he does'nt say anything tell him"it's ok u can tell the truth ".that should probe him to speak out.but don't tell him that u like him directly.u need to get this guy to speak out.so don't play ur trump card.
if it gets extreme then try making him jealous,but under any circumstance he is the one who has to speak out.cause a guy should have guts to say it and he should definitely be able to speak to u without any hesitation.ur only job is to hint that u like him and to encourage him to speak up.
2007-07-13 18:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by della 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hopefully know what he's passionate about. If not, ask him. Get on the web and learn enough to ask an intelligent question and then just shut up and let him come to you.
2007-07-13 17:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Net Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his shy he'll need some backup. jus go ahed ask im out for to a casule plc... jus go on an outing with other frnds.gudluck enjoy
2007-07-13 18:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Oshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to make the next move.
2007-07-13 18:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a few days..if he doesnt make a move..invite him somwhere
2007-07-13 18:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋