What's up with these sub-humans who take their kids with them to the store, hit them when they misbehave, and?

Question

then start screaming at the kid for crying? Don't they know their smacks hurt?

Funny how nearly every single person who has said hitting your children is okay doesn't allow contact with the rest of us.

And i judge because i can, because i know the damage hitting does.

Answer 1

You refer to these people as sub-humans. What gives you the right to judge people in that manner? Yes they may be poor parents who can't control their temper or their children, but to lump them in a group like that is generalizing at best. Perhaps they were stressed out and made a poor judgment call at that time. I am sure they know it hurt, which is why they did it, to get the child's attention. I don't believe yelling or hitting a child in public is right, but everybody handles things in different ways at different times.

Answer 2

Witnessed this today at Macys.
A boy and girl 4-6 years of age were running around the shoe section, throwing shoes at each other, and leaving them all over the floor so people could trip. The mother didn't care.
Then the mother starts screaming at the salesperson that she is not being helped. The nasty mother yells at the salesperson and calls her rude, mean, and a liar for no reason.

If you can't keep your own kids controlled or well mannered how the heck are you going to get good service especially when she is being yelled at by customer.

Answer 3

People like that typically don't know how to effectively control their kids and/or communicate with them, nor are they realistic when it comes to their expectations. Taking a child out shopping can be sensory overload- plus kids have short attention spans. Combine that with the energy they have, and it can be a virtual recipe for trouble. Parents of small children especially would be wise to leave their offspring with a sitter or relative if they plan to be out shopping for more than thirty minutes. That way, the child is not set up for misbehavior, and the parent can get done what needs to be done.

Answer 4

Well first of all The people that hit another person such a child i think its not right, but when you see things like that just looks bad and more just like you say they hit them and then they do scream at them after is just so childish more like their own kids behavior. I think they need to attend pare ting classes, but i think that they just don't get it that more they yelled at their kids and hit them the problem would get worst. Please people don't hit the kids and more if they are your own that just sucks!

Answer 5

interest in seek of. Hmmmmm hi the toddlers are misbehaving as a ability of in seek of interest, they do it on purpose, as they recognize the outcomes from previous activities. they have inherited that trait from the confirm, who's doing the comparable ingredient via publically disciplining their newborn - in seek of interest. reward or no reward gadget works superb in case you do no longer sub-consciously desire interest your self.

Answer 6

They are ignorant for not learning any other way to deal with them than by using physical violence.

I can't stand seeing that in a store and I don't hesitate to confront the person. One time when I was in a store I saw a man pushing a cart with 2 small children sitting in it. He was flicking his finger on their heads. I stopped and stood there watching him. He looked over & smiled at me. I said: "Do you always abuse your kids like that?" He says: "WHAT? All I'm doing is flicking them on the head. What's the big deal." I said: "The big deal is that you could go to jail." He shouts: "Mind your business, Lady!" I said: "No, I won't. How about if I flick your ugly head and see how you like it?"
I began walking towards him and he ran for the checkout counter.

Another time I was in the same store & saw a man carrying a crying child out the door who was screaming for her mommy. I yelled at him: "Hey! Is that your child?" He looked right at me, turned around, & kept going. I yelled at some store employees to "call security!" Then I ran out the door after him. I reached him as he was strapping the little girl into a car seat. I said: "Excuse me. . . but is this your daughter?" He said: "yes". I said: "What is her name?" He says: "Elizabeth". I looked at the crying child and asked her what her name was. She told me "Elizabeth". I said: "And is this your daddy?" She said: "Yes". I looked at the man & said: "sorry, but I wanted to make sure she wasn't being abducted by a stranger." To my surprise, the man thanked me for my concern and explained that his daughter had started having a tantrum in the store so his wife told him to take her out to the car.

Seeing a child being abused or possibly being abducted makes me blow up like the incredible hulk. I won't tolerate it.

Answer 7

well I do believe in disciplining your child because if you don't hit them, they will hit you. haven't you seen supernanny and Maury. but I also believe you have to show some type of control and understand that you are hitting a child and not a person your age. as for the yelling at them when they cry, that depends. some kids will yell to try to embarrass you and cause a scene when all you did was tap them. my mom always said "If you embarrass me, I will embarrass you." and me and my brothers never embarrassed her.

Answer 8

They don't know how to raise kids. They get embaressed when their kid acts dumb, and try to control the kid with fear. Parents should never physically disipline their kids when they are angry at them, and not in public either. Then it humiliates the kids. The parents you mentioned could refine their techniques.

Answer 9

they think that kid abusage is too low and that hitting a poor defenceless child is they only way to discipline!! they are sickos who i wish are not parents!!

Answer 10

I think they're selfish and stoopid. You know those parents who punish their kids for doing things they were never even told not to do??? Uggh. That burns me up.