i moved to a new city lasted year. this yr has been really hard. like my mom and dad have chaged alot. like my dad is getting mad to easyily. i'll get hit if i tell my little sister to please leave me alone i don't want to here it. so like one day i got so mad. and i ran away. i was gone for like 3 hours. then my dad found me. he was y i lefted. he was driving so he stopped the car. and he yelled my name. he was so mad.then he got out of the car and and ran to me. i was scaryed at first i was thing he was gonna hit me or something. he did. but he huged me first. then not hit but he spanked me really really hard. then a few mins after he hugged me after words. and he was like. "thats bout how much pain i was in when u lefted! can't u tell i love u! god! ur a idoit at times." then he huged me. i cryed sofly.i was said sorry to him throw. then after words he was talking to me on y i ran away. he called me a sweetie. that he loves me.
p.s. don't call me a brat plz n thank u! :)
2007-07-13 07:40:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thank you to people how have replyed... oh yah.. haha i forgot my age... i'm 15. :) i think that would clear up a few things.
2007-07-14 06:19:26 · update #1
It sounds like your Dad is under alot of pressure. Parents aren't perfect. They have hugh problems that aren't always handled the right way. I think it's fair to say that they don't mean to get mad at you at home, but going through 8-10 hrs a day of stress can overwhelm even an adult. Unfortunately, they have so many problems they don't realize they are hurting you. This may have been a big wake up call for them.
2007-07-13 08:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by LAL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your dad is having a hard time with something and doesn't know what to do about it. i don't think hitting you or calling you an idiot was the answer but it sounds like his frustration and fear got the better of him. i don't know your age but you must be young if he"spanked you".i'd say he does love you but he isn't sure how to show it.maybe you could open the lines of communication and get to know him.
2007-07-13 14:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds like you dad is clinically depressed or something. If you dad is hitting you than you should tell someone or even contact a social service.
2007-07-13 14:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by collegewoman_101 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋