i was born with small hold in the heart and i want check up every month till i had just given birth on 3rd july 2007 every things was fine till it the sec day my baby the doctor found out he seem to be very breathless and was rush to icu. they found out that he had two hole in the heart need surgery fast but on the day he had jaundice so they wait till it recover. on 11july he had his surgery but the doctor said he have bleeding from the brain as the air cant get through his lung. and i have a son his 8 year old this year and his very healthly. please help what want wrong am really upsad and my poor baby have to go though so much want his just so small. is it my fault?
2007-07-12 03:21:31 · 5 answers · asked by belbel b 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Heart Diseases
No, It is non of your fault, don't blame yourself, this happens to parents with normal hearts.
Anyway I am sorry to hear the trauma you have gone through. Being upset is normal.
Be thankful & happy with the His Blessings , that you have healthy son. Think of those who don't have child at all, what mental trauma they undergo.
You see it lies in HIS hand, all the time we are tested by HIM, and this is the most part of HIS test.
So be thankful to HIM. OK.Everything is going to be fine in future.
2007-07-12 05:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Qutub 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. It's not your fault at all. Nothing you did caused your baby to have a heart defect. It happens and it's a lot more common than you would think - about 1 in every 100 babies are born with some kind of heart defect.
Babies are so small, but they are so strong. I've read so many stories (and even lived my own) and it's unbelievable how strong these babies can be. When your son recovers and grows up he won't remember a thing about it. It's much harder for us as parents than it is for them.
2007-07-12 12:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kathie L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not your fault. This will only make you stronger, and you and your baby will have a stronger relationship. The holes can be causes by the genes of either parents. You have one very heathy son. This baby is just a special gift from god to you. Don't let this hurt you, let it make you stronger for your baby.
2007-07-12 10:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by teddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not your fault. Be sure he gets the best medical care and have faith in God as well.
2007-07-12 10:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by emtd65 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not your fault. this happens some times. its gods weird way of nature. dont worry everything will be fine.
2007-07-12 10:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋