I have not had sex in 2 months and I plan on not having sex for a while. I got tested for STDs about a month ago, I'm disease free and I want to keep it that way. But it really gets hard for me. I wouldn't say I'm addicted to sex, but I think about it quite often. I'm trying to abtain from having sex for a while, but I want to know how I can keep myself from getting in situations where I feel like having sex. So does anyone have any advice or tips?? Thanks.
2007-07-06 01:47:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
It gets a little better once you get used to it. The first two weeks were hell but then I started getting used to it. I still masturbate, mind you, but I don't think about sex constantly. I just to stay busy and concentrate on my hobbies, friends, career, education, etc.
If you start dating someone, get to know them before sleeping with them. Make sure that they're clean and use protection. Don't invite anyone back to your place after a date and don't go out and get drunk with them if you have a problem saying no when you've been drinking.
Good luck!
2007-07-06 05:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by insomniac 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to church, take a cold shower, find a hobby...do things to occupy your time so you dont think about sex so much. it really isnt that hard. you just have to exercise some self-control. its not like you are an animal that goes into heat. i havent had sex in two years and I plan to remain celebate until i get married. if you really want to abstain then you will do just that. there is more to life than just sex.
2007-07-06 19:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by kystik83 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sexual tension builds and there should be a way to take care of it. For release, you could masturbate. If you don't want to then take up on a sport where you get rid of the tension. Do you swim, run, jog, play tennis? Avoid situations that could lead to sex. It's hard but not impossible.
2007-07-06 14:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by cruisechloe 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
use protection everytime and get to know your partner, if you want to have a sexual relationship with someone as a single person with all the diseases out there it is very risky, so trying to refrain is best, do what you like to do the most what makes you happy to take your mind off of it, drawing and painting are artistic and hands on so that may help
2007-07-06 09:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by kelly_hotma 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think about the Bible when you get nasty thoughts. I heard that helps. You can always have the other person tested before you have sex with them, then you know you're in the clear. Just try not to get them pregnant, and that will be your only worry.
2007-07-06 11:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by crownbaby 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why would you want to abstain from the VERY best thing in life?
Sex is wonderful, safe and natural.
2007-07-07 03:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to fill ur time read alot , mmm try swim and do sport so u can waster ur energy in sport rather than sex
2007-07-06 08:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by jo n jo 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Go to the toy store. Hint-hint......lol
2007-07-10 00:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anne E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try keeping yourself busy, exercises are ideal,try not to be alone and idle -thus socialise with elders or litle ones who don't have time for 'that' and lastly when you can't take it any longer, musterbate.
2007-07-06 09:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by chodoigurui 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
hold an aspirin between your knees & don*t remove it.... :)
2007-07-06 21:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋