I am 17 years old, my girlfriend and i went in the pool today, had sexual contact like fingering, then we got out and went to the room, we didnt have condoms, so just to see what it felt like, i sticked it in 3 inches and took it out, this lasted less than 3 seconds, i didnt ejaculate, and i checked for pre *** before i put it in.
i know she does not have any STD and i know i dont either.
we had sex before with condoms, and i allways get the "What if?" in my mind, after i do it
i dont think im ready for sex but i want it, and she does too.
do you think there is any pregnacy risk for 3 seconds, this might be stupid, but i allways get the "what if"
and i keep promising myself not to do it, but i cant help it
any advise
2007-07-04 17:11:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Always use a condom whether it's for a 3 inch penetration for 3 seconds or a full romp! You don't wanna get an STD and then wonder "What If" i'd worn a condom?
2007-07-04 17:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately do not sound like you are ready for sex, let alone the possibility of getting your girlfriend pregnant and then having a child to look after. In my opinion you ought to wait a few years until you know you are ready for it and the consequences.
Your worries about STDs are probably just the power of sugestion; you have heard about all these things and you just can't stop wondering "what if" like you said. As long as you KNOW that she doesn't have a STD.
2007-07-04 17:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you are ready for sex. Yes, she can still get pregnant even if you only inserted it 3 inches, it was only in for 3 seconds and even if you didn't ejaculate. There is plenty of sperm in your pre-ejaculate.
If she doesn't get pregnant, consider yourself VERY lucky and don't do it again until you KNOW you are ready. Like when you can afford to be a daddy and pay for all the things that come with a baby.
2007-07-04 17:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she can. Tell her to check her ovulation with the calender. 14 days after she started to bleed is when she should ovulate. But you should beware anytime that week of ovulation. If you aren't ready then don't do it. If you are going to do it be responsible at least. Don' take a chance. No glove no love. I know it sounds corny but it's true!
2007-07-08 16:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think so but i am not a doctor. you can use spremcide and other ways to avoid geting a baby condoms aren't the only way. hope this help
2007-07-04 17:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by bryan l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is bad thing for a teenager like you to do. quit it
2007-07-04 17:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by jentag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will power is the greatest think on this matter on this in my opion?
2007-07-04 17:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋