I've been with this guy for almost a whole year and I haven't heard I love you once Should I look for someone new? Because I cry all the time because I just want to be loved and he's clueless I guess...I don't know what to do, what would you do?
2007-07-01 20:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by ♥♡♪♫☆♥♡♪♫☆ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waist your life on someone who does not make you happy.
2007-07-01 20:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sentient6 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As him once and for all. Why torture yourself. Just say something like this--"We have been together for a year now. I think that it is time i know where I stand with you. Do you love me? Do you think that we have a future together? I need to know because I feel like you do not love me since you do not ever tell me."
If he says that he does, tell him that you need to hear it once in a while If he says that he is not sure, give him a little more time, but do not waste your whole life on him trying to decide. He should have a good idea about how he feels about you by now.
2007-07-02 03:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww. I have felt the same way before. You know something, sometimes as guys we forget to say I love you to the person we love with all our hearts. But, thats not an excuse. Why do you tell him you love him? obviously because before you say it, you think about it. You think about it because just by looking through their eyes a spark ignites and you feel like telling them you love them. If this person hasn't said they love you, it may be because they don't. I dont want to sound mean, but it may be true. You know something, sometimes a brake up might help. Trust me, I learned the hard way! If you guys broke up, he will see that he indeed loves you (if he really does). If he loves you, hes going to do whatever is in his power to get you back, and when you guys get back I promise you he will always tell you he loves you because he wouldn't want to lose you ever again. If he is indifferent about your brake up then he really doesn't care. Sorry honey, you need to find someone that is willing to love you the same way you love them. Find someone that truly loves you. Be patient, you will find him. Hope this helps. Good Luck.
2007-07-02 04:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very great to hear some one say" I love you", but the greatest thing is when they mean it! i know you might think that you don't have a healthy relationship since your partner doesn't say he loves you, but beleive me, love is not just a word, try to see his actions and the way he treats you. Do you find the care and love when he treats you, then you don't need a word! or do you want some one who says that he loves you all the time, but in reality he doesn't..! if you are still unconvinced, have a romantic night( maybe dinner at home with slow music) and calmly ask him why he never says he loves you!
2007-07-02 04:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every boyfriend or girlfriend needs to say "I love you" to each other. Have you talk to your man about it? Talk to him. Have you told him that you love him? You should & he needs to say it back to you. If he does not, then he is not the guy for you. I hope everything work out for you & don't let it bother you too much or even at work.
-I grow up with 3 older sisters
2007-07-02 04:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about it. Ask him where you stand in his life. It will be hard to ask, but you need an answer.
If he still doesn't get the picture, maybe it's time to move on and find someone else who can see how wonderful you are.
2007-07-02 03:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to ask yourself does he lack any other important areas of interest and if he does then you should probably should leave him to keep from being hurt, and if not just try to stick it out. Or maybe y'all should try communicating more to see how each other feels about one another and try to work it out that way.
2007-07-02 03:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by nika_caliente 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its hard for him to show his feelings. But if you are not happy come out and ask him why he doesnt if he dont answer move on
2007-07-02 03:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by rick k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys have a funny way of loving you that dosent acctually involve saying i love you... they show it rather than say it, because saying it "shows weakness"
yea, i know it's retarted... but im just telling you a fact...
2007-07-02 03:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by Volleyball Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever asked him..... tell him that you love him if he does not reply than you should leave him
2007-07-02 03:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Just Ordinary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋