Okay, so I just walked out on my boyfriend because, for about the 5th time since we started dating, he just stopped during intercourse. Just stopped! Let me explain... okay, as all women can, I got a little 'uncomfortable' during one position, se we changed up up. Everything was fine, but then he just stopped... just laid there... no movement... no eye contact... didn't even say anything. Why? He's done this before and it irritates me. It makes me feel so embarassed because here I am trying, and he just 'gives up'. I don't understand. Then, he walks out into the living room after I came out to watch TV to pass time, and he says 'we shouldn't have sex if it hurts you'. Um, hello?... I was over the 'hurt' and we had moved on. Why? Guys opinion would be great. No sarcastic remarks please.
2007-07-01 19:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's definetly something going on in this guys mind... But, what? Only he knows... It could be anything from he's feeling guilty to not enjoying himself. I would just ask him after it happens, or if it's bothering u that bad, ask him a.s.a.p. The best thing to do is be honest and open with him... Tell him how u feel and ask him how he feels. Like with most relationship issues, communication is the best way to solve them. Good luck...
2007-07-01 21:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by BuuCity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is feeling guilty about hurting you, and looses the excitement that he was feeling. You really need to reassure him that you do love him, and want him to make him happy. Tell him how much making love to him means to you. Maybe you can tell him what positions hurt you, so that you can avoid those positions. Good Luck.
2007-07-02 02:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprising as it is some guy like the girl to do all the work and them just take it all in. He probably doesn't realize his stopping because his so into. Just tell him you hate it when he does that and that he needs to participate more
2007-07-02 02:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe becuz u r sreaming if u r and he thinks he hurting u
2007-07-02 03:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by LILC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you getting boring in bed
2007-07-02 02:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not enjoying it.
2007-07-02 02:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he do it often?
2007-07-02 02:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋