i know most people say "you just know" but what do u feel/do etc if u really do love someone?
there was this guy i liked a few years ago and i only realised recently that i still like him...LOADS! we got on great 3/4 years ago and used to flirt absolutely loads and i didnt know it then but he made it so obvious he liked me....he even asked me what i thought of him and unfortunately i blew my chance :(
but now we dont talk anymore and i see him look at me sometimes but wether it means anything i dont know :s
to be honest....i really miss him...and the great times we had together those few years ago :(
please help me
so....how can i tell if i love him or not?
2007-07-01 18:53:37 · 11 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is always a really personal decision. that is why they say "you'll know", because there is no one answer. for me, love was knowing that life without my husband would not be even close to as rich, fun, or exciting as it is with him. the problem with love is that there are so many kinda, it's hard to put your finger down on what you feel.
my advice is to think about what you like about him, why he makes you feel like you do. then, try to think of if anyone else you know could possibly have those same qualities and make you happier than he can. if you come up with blanks, you've probably got a decent case of love going on.
2007-07-01 19:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Erica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell u luv him by all of this uv ritten. u reli want this person, an the onli person wh knws this is u which is y ppl say "u jst knw" whn u like sum1.u shud take things further if ur redi for ir.......
p.s whr r u? how come u dont talk to me anymore? :-(
2007-07-04 04:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel exactly? The way u felt when u were with this guy and the way ur missing him now.
2007-07-02 05:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may want to see her.u will miss her but not stop esp when u have sth hard to deal with .But when u see her alreadly u may not want her seeing u r looking at her .it may be strange but it is may e-but why not have a talk with her .without a talk u will just enjoy missing
2007-07-05 02:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by scrooge_cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you love some-one when you hate argueing with them, If you dont argue you know that there is no feeling there as there is no point in arguing. If that makes any sense to you.
2007-07-02 02:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by kelly t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling.If you cannot sense it/perceive it,there is no love.Love is reciprocated by love.No body can teach you,you have to learn yourself.
2007-07-02 04:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way it sounds u are lusting after this guy, if u dont know honestly if u love someone or not more than likely u dont
2007-07-02 01:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by daisygirl212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different for everyone - hence the "you'll know" answer
imagine your life without this person
if you feel that you couldn't go on
then you probably love them
2007-07-02 02:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love in the here and now-is more than what you have mentioned, yet there is a start-the point is becoming true friends-to both care about each other-to feel each others joy and pain. This may feel many ways. What you have described is your building up things in your heart and mind to make him seem perfect to you, yet we all have our imperfections. In love, its not a one chance deal, relax and dont obsess=thinking he is all, or keep thinking you blew it.
When he and you and I come to the truest of all love-not just to be willing to die to protect another-the Jesus who died to protect those of us that didnt even care about him, then we are guided to earthly true love.
this is how I came to His love=this is what helped me learn my lessons=the door of your heart-to be your best friend
this helped me=true love-help from above =it will work the door to your heart=Revelation 1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 and chapter 3:19&20 I love you and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin and be your friend, when you ask me in." Jesus words =think of the future too
when its real and in honor-in friendship & for marriage for the future and living in honor till then. "In marriage the bed is undefiled, but the others will be judged." Hebrews 13 in that chapter is also the promise once we let Jesus into our heart "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee." verse 5
this is what got me self control=I have had the best of everything in life (I thought) till I came to Jesus and learned the joy of life, in salvation and renewal, praying for you, -and I am just a messenger in Jesus amazing grace (John 3rd chapter) repented of my sins, even one lie and let Jesus in to help and be my friend-and if you wont listen to Jesus-please understand there is nothing I can do to help thee prince. it sure worked for me, =Jesus is the one to comfort you and to give you help to commit in a relationship, in Jesus amazing grace, John 3rd chapter repented of my sins,even one lie, and let Jesus in to be my friend=
"Jesus help me, thanks that you love me, I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
praying for you and the best, David -I pray this helped you some and you say the prayer for it will help you.
2007-07-02 15:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are willing to do anything for them without even realising it!!
2007-07-02 07:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by joe m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋