Well I have known this girl forever and she was dating this kid for like 2 years...and then they broke up for a while and got back together and tried to work things out between the 2 of them and her b/f was really never commited to the relationship...well about a week ago they broke up and i had liked this kid for about 2 weeks and then we hung out one day and made out...Well of course she found out (how i don't know, but that's besides the point)...I know she's angry at me for it ...but did i really do something wrong?...p.s. this is her friend Sarah
2007-07-01 18:31:47 · 13 answers · asked by sad and smiling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm by the way im a girl that made out wit a guy... im straight! 8)
2007-07-01 18:50:23 · update #1
From your friend's point of view you probably did do something wrong. Also a lot of people will say that it was bad, but at the end of the day you have to do what's right for you.
She'll probably get over it, and let's face it...making out is great fun!
2007-07-03 17:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's two parts to this. The answer is yes, and no.
No. You did nothing wrong...in the literal sense. You didn't cheat. You're not a player. You were doing what you wanted.
However, you DID NOT protect the other girl. You were wrong by letting her find out.
Here's the truth. She's not mad at you for kissing the other girl. It's not the infidelity issue. It's that you didn't protect her feelings and she now has the emotional memory of hearing her friend confirm that you didn't care about her enough to protect her feelings.
So, although you may not think it, how this girl found out about you making out with this other girl IS important...you need to make sure that something like that doesn't happen in the future.
You can have anything you want in a relationship. You just have to keep your partner happy and protect her feelings by any means necessary. That's your job.
2007-07-01 18:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by MattVaill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely didn't make the best choice. I've found its best to ask a friend what they think before hooking up with their ex's. She probably still had feelings for him. If I were you, I'd at least apologize.
2007-07-01 18:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are her friend, of course it will make her angry. You have to choose to give her up as a friend to be with him, or give him up to keep her as a friend.
Put yourself in her shoes and imagine how you would feel then.
2007-07-01 18:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some will say yes and some will say no-i say its a heart issue=this is what helped me learn my lessons=the door of your heart-to be your best friend
this helped me=true love-help from above =it will work the door to your heart=Revelation 1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 and chapter 3:19&20 I love you and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin and be your friend, when you ask me in." Jesus words =think of the future too
when its real and in honor-called marriage for the future and living in honor till then. "In marriage the bed is undefiled, but the others will be judged." Hebrews 13 in that chapter is also the promise once we let Jesus into our heart "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee." verse 5
this is what got me self control=I have had the best of everything in life (I thought) till I came to Jesus and learned the joy of life, in salvation and renewal, praying for you, -and I am just a messenger in Jesus amazing grace (John 3rd chapter) repented of my sins, even one lie and let Jesus in to help and be my friend-and if you wont listen to Jesus-please understand there is nothing I can do to help thee prince. it sure worked for me, =Jesus is the one to comfort you and to give you help to commit in a relationship, in Jesus amazing grace, John 3rd chapter repented of my sins,even one lie, and let Jesus in to be my friend, amen.
praying for you and the best, David
2007-07-01 18:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it's really nice that you've done that you would not want her to do the same thing to you right? just think about it. be in your friend's shoes. think of how she felt betrayed by her own friend.
2007-07-01 18:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by zzzme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You violated the girlfriend code.
2007-07-01 18:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not really good friends with her. Then, no.. Nothing wrong..
2007-07-01 18:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by .:Miss. Dawkins:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER DATE A FRIENDS EX-BOYFRIEND. Find your own boyfriends.
2007-07-01 18:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by gratitude monster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically,no!!!!! but, if you respect the friendship, you probably should have confronted her with your feelings for him, first!!!
2007-07-01 18:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by pufnstufanatic!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋