i broke up with the guy i lost my virginity to. i can honestly say the only thing i miss is the sex. how wrong is it to have sex again, now that i've been dating my new bf for 4 months?
2007-07-01 18:01:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait awhile. relationships are more than just having sex.
2007-07-01 18:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by drea D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 19 y/o when I lost my virginity...I regret it. I was with the guy for 2 years, but I never understood why I even "did the deed" with him anyway. I'm 23 now- I've been with another man- my fiance. I love him with all my heart. I'm so glad I didn't have many sex partners in my young age- life is a little less complicated that way.
You are 17- I think one is too many. Right now you should be concentrating on yourself, school, being a young woman! College is right around the corner! If you wait for the right guy- you'll thank yourself!!
Sex is not based on how long you've been with someone; I was with my fiance for about 2 months before we made love. But remember- with sex comes a lot of concern- you don't want to end up pregnant or with a disease! Good luck!
2007-07-02 01:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to cheat on your new bf, but have all the sex you want, just do it responsibly, and no the consequences and be willing to handle then should something happen.use a condon or birth control or face the consequences Under law you are not allowed to have sex until 18 years of age. and if you not both the same age or 18 the older person can get it for statutory rape. So you have to decide what is right for you and make your own choices.
2007-07-02 01:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ben Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong about haveing sex. Its that you start to label your self as being to easy, but if you don't care about what others say about you then forget what I have said. To tell you the truth if one of my firends finds out that you give it up with other guys s h i t I would be the next bf when you leave the other one. You get what I am saying. Sex is good but to much of with other guys just don't look good for you as a young girl.
2007-07-02 01:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are still so very young and if guys start to think of you as "easy", then you'll be earning yourself a reputation that you will not find easy to live down.
Be true to yourself and wait til you find the Mr. Right for YOU and you'll be so much happier that you waited. And maturity comes with age and experience, but NOT sexual experience, per se. Just be happy while you're still young and understand that the "good guys" will appreciate a "good girl".... IF you want a good guy that is. GOOD LUCK and have FUN while you're still so young sweetie!
2007-07-02 01:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by â?¥â?ªâ?«Karenâ?«â?ªâ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable enough to have sex with your new bf then go for it. It's your relationship and your life, just make sure you wear protection if you do decide to take your relationship to the next level. Better to be safe than sorry.
2007-07-02 01:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember theres no such thing as casual sex, everytime with someone else, you give a piece of yourself away. find someone who loves you, (wait till your a little older) and who will wait, thats a good sign not someone who wants to get married fast after a very short time of dating. besides y would you want that image or rep.?
2007-07-02 01:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by em9sredbeam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. Don't move so quickly into a sexual relationship. Sex is much more enjoyable with someone that you truly love.
2007-07-02 01:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toooooooooooooo young
wait till ya married
2007-07-02 01:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stsrt if you want make sure your on the pill. Don't take any chances.
2007-07-02 01:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by ashbandgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋