Im very unhappy to say that three people slipped up in 3 days and Im now positive that my bridal shower is next weekend. The first and the second comments they attempted to cover up but then the last comment was straight out "im going to your bridal shower next weekend"
Do I tell my bridal party and mom that I know or let them think they surprised me. I really wanted to be surprised and now Im kinda bummed and I don't want to upset my bridal party Im sure they have been working so hard to keep it a secret and get everything together to surprise me. I don't know if I should tell them I hate the idea of making comments like I don't know whats up I feel like a lier
2007-07-01 16:11:42 · 11 answers · asked by Weeeee... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
When it boils down to it, the truth hurts. You are right - a lot of time and effort has gone in trying to organise a surprise for you.
It is a shame that a couple of people have spoilt the surprise for you (if that is the case, they could be deliberately misleading you thinking you were figuring out too much), but it would be an even bigger shame if YOU spoilt all the hard work and emotion that your mum and friends have invested into this surprise by letting them know that you know what's going on.
Bite your tounge and just enjoy the day! It's obvious that a lot of people truely care and love you if they have gone to all this trouble.
Down the track if you find that your conscience gets the better of you, let them know, but do it a funny way like part of a wedding speech so that they can all laugh about it.
2007-07-01 16:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Moneta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wedding showers and Bridal showers are the identical factor I feel the one change that a marriage ceremony bathe you'll invite men You rather do not have a marriage ceremony and bridal showers The identical folks cross to each besides for men, and so much men don't desire to visit a bath That additionally cross via Jack and Jill bathe I had 2 showers, one for my household in a single state and one for my husband household in one more state You could have 2 showers if the households are living in to exclusive subject or the Having the identical factor calling it one more factor is simply strange, you're no longer inviting the identical folks are you? Wedding/Bridal bathe meals You would have a seat meal at a restaurant This approach the whole lot is finished for you They are great, you select meals from the menu you'll have a condominium/garden bathe This with meals like: deli patter(meat or sandwich), ziti, meatballs, Pasta salad, sauges and peppers, ham, turkey, potato salad. and so on It's what you'll have at any household get together These are extra amusing, extra lay again Bachelorette get together's are exclusive from showers They are typical peers and younger household member Most are over 21, consuming worried If it is at residence, a stripper suggests up plenty They cross out to night time golf equipment and stuff More like appetizers and get together meals You simplest desire a bathe and a bachelorette get together
2016-09-05 12:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it! They (the spoliers) probably didnt know it was a surprise as it is very unusal these days that the bridal shower is a surprise. So forgive them. But also, your loved ones have been working hard to prepare and would be bummed if they knew you knew. So just go with it and BE surprised. Just think of all of the things you dont know yet...the decorations, the games they will play, who all is going to be there, what gifts you will be getting, etc. Just enjoy the day!
2007-07-05 01:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by mikejustine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something like this happened when I got married. Since most of the would-be shower guests lived far apart (I live in a different part of the state from where I grew up and got married and many of my friends live in other states), they all just sent me a bouquet of flowers on the selected day, so I got all different types of flowers delivered to me all day long. Even though one friend slipped up and I knew about the surprise weeks in advance, I just went along with the idea that I did not know anything was planned. I think that is the best way to do things so as not to spoil everyone's fun.
2007-07-02 05:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by wisegirl1204 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The decent thing to do is say nothing. Act surprised, GENUINELY, and be flattered that people thought so highly of you as to surprise you with a party in your honor. Afterwards, you may come clean if asked... Not before..
2007-07-01 16:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would spare the feelings of the ladies, as they worked so hard on your behalf. You can at least, act pleasantly surprised. You don't have to go over the top, though.
My motto in life is..."Some things are best left unsaid."
2007-07-05 10:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you "want" to be suprised? You KNOW you are getting married, you KNOW that your bridesmaids are likely to throw you a shower, why complicate your life/schedule by being suprised? What if YOU had other plans that day?
And why be UPSET at your party just because it was not a suprise? You are at a PARTY in YOUR honor where you will be getting GIFTS?
What is there to be upset about?
2007-07-01 16:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Momma 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let them think they surprised you.
Dress up a bit nicer that day too :)
2007-07-02 04:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try your hardest to act surpise, they are putting alot of effort into it. Some people donot know when to keep their mouths shut. You will enjoy it anyway. Best Wishes.
2007-07-05 09:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good, now you can wear an ultra cute outfit and have your hair done nice for pics they may take. :) BE HAPPY!
2007-07-01 17:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Reality 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋