2007-07-01 15:02:34 · 28 answers · asked by jorose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hold your head up high and be kind to everyone.
2007-07-01 15:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't they want you there? Do they think they are any better than you. Maybe you should remind them that they are not any better. They have the same blood in them as you do so that brings them to the same level. Family should be there for us no matter what we have done. You should go to the gathering and react the way you did before you realized they didn't want you there. If they treat you bad just remember that you are not like them and plan to get along with your family.
2007-07-01 22:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by gurlndixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure there are some of your relatives who want to see you. So, start by chatting and talking with them. There is a saying (actually this physics theory) "in every action there is reaction". Be honest to me, are you sure you also contribute for such kind atmosphere assuming that "nobody like me". Forget about the saying "what goes around comes around" but at least do you share by being nice and you will see the result.
2007-07-01 22:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by LMiserab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think they don't want you to be there? You are family, and you belong to the family, so you are allowed to be at the gathering as long as you are respectful to the others. Be polite, be nice, don't bring up any old wounds.
If you've done something to anger them, you should apologize to those involved ahead of time, so you can avoid the scene at the reunion.
2007-07-01 22:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Don't Know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been invited you have the right to be there the same as everybody else. All you can do is be on your best behaviour, watch your manners, don't drink too much and don't let anyone know that you know how they feel. When the day is over they might just have a different opinion of you.
2007-07-01 22:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that all depends on what you have or have not done to make the family not want you there.
If it's a petty reason, I'd go.....hold your head high....and tell them to get over it.
It the reason is something questionable, maybe you'd better be a bit humble, make sure you have a couple supportive family members, and go and mend fences.
A family worthy of all its members is the one who accepts. When you don't have family.....you don't have anything! Good luck!
2007-07-01 22:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by DAWN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow lol i know exactly how you feel. i would just play along and try to include yourself in some of the conversations but dont start them that would be weird. and try to add some humor in conversations. but dont act sad during the gathering because that might look like you are being stubborn. so just act like everythings going well. hope this helps. write me back!
2007-07-01 22:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't want you,why go? Doesn't seem like much of loving family if some do not want you there.I would show up briefly and at the first negative remark I would let them have it both barrels,and then split.
2007-07-01 22:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice let them like u even if u don'y like them and believe me I know how does it feel as I have experienced that like a million times I just act as acute girl so that they like me although I deep really deep in my heart I don't like them . this trick works every time I hope it works for u .
a little tip: just do what they want from u to do whatever it is adnd keep ur self out of troubles and out of arguments and fights and everything will be ok
2007-07-01 22:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by ng4791 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. Ignore them and just enjoy yourself speak kindly to everyone. Maybe hang out more with the ones that want you there but do not ignore anyone make sure you say hey to everyone. i mean in reason. If there is alot of people i mean you might not be able to see every single person.
If you are nice to them it will PISS THEM OFF SO SO BAD IT WONT EVEN BE FUNNY. so say hey to them just to be nice and just for your pleasure
2007-07-01 22:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 1., be yourself, and 2., If they start bugging you, don't answer back. Think the reply in your head and either ignore them or give them the coldest glare you have given anyone. Trust me. Reply and if they are older than they'll say 'Don't give me sass, boy/girl!' and if they are younger they'll probably run to they're mothers and say 'he/she said something mean to me, mama!' The ones closest to your age are unpredictable, so dont reply!
2007-07-01 22:11:06 · answer #11 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋