so i was on bebo two days ago when this started if u have ever been on bebo its kinda like myspace but easier anyway i was going on different profiles and i came across a girls profile and it had my boyfriends pictures all over it so i sent her a message and asked her how she knew nhim she wrote back that they talk so i asked her did she know he had a girlfriend and she replied no because he's always telling me how much he loves me coming to see me he calls me every moring so i confronted my boyfriend about it and he claimed he didnt know her ,then he changed it to we met online then it changed to we met one time at church,then he start beggin me not to leave today the girl sent me a message and said she got everything mixed up and she was sorry does this sound right
2007-07-01 14:55:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a little strange. It would also have been a little easier to resolve but for your boyfriends ever changing explanations.In trying to explain how he knew the young lady, he chose to lie rather than tell the truth. Hence, he dug himself a deeper hole plus he appeared as if he had something to hide.It would have been much easier to believe in a platonic relationship at best; and a one-sided obsession at worst if he had not lied.I guess he never heard that honesty was the best policy. Since the girl has recanted, I suggest you tell your boyfriend that he has damaged your shared trust and would have to work hard to rebuild it.If he is willing to do that and you still love him and want to try ,then I say go for it.We all make mistakes that hopefully we learn and grow from.Best of luck.
2007-07-01 15:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, but he sounds like he genuinely doesnt want you to go. so i think you should stick around and see what happens. if you dont want to though, (because of trust issues) then let him go.
2007-07-01 21:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by delirious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋