seriously is there any guys out there that arent jerks??? that dont want to be friends with benefits that actually want a casual relationship working into a serious one?
2007-07-01 14:34:52 · 16 answers · asked by bowler_chic27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, sex is taken so much for granted these days, and casually entertained by teenagers in school. It's not getting any better. I think one of the best things you can do is be honest upfront with a guy about it. Also, be firm. A guy can say okay, I'm cool with being just friends with no sex, and later he can say, let's do it, but you have to stand your ground. Some guys will say "aww, c'mon, just this once", and boom, off he goes. I'm sure you know the story. But still, be patient, be honest, be firm, and tell him to keep his hands ABOVE your waist! Good luck!
2007-07-01 14:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sacrificial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES EVERYWHERE.
But if you go to every date with a new guy with your ARMS FOLDED and an attitude that EVERY GUY IS A JERK, then there is NO MAN ON EARTH who will CARE ENOUGH ABOUT trying to prove you wrong. . . . CERTAINLY NOT A "FIRST DATE" WITH A WOMAN HE HARDLY KNOWS . . . . or even the 5TH.
We have better things to do than "prove ourselves" to women with a mental block that "ALL MEN ARE JERKS".
You will be TREATED EXACTLY AS YOU BEHAVE. No better . No worse. If you think that is "UNFAIR" for whatever bullsh•t reason, then -->>> DONT MAKE IT A MAN'S PROBLEM WHEN IT'S CLEARLY YOURS.
We are not remotely interested in running after your approval. Go get yourself a WUSSY man who will take you out, and buy you flowers all the time, and shower you wilth attention and adoration, and tell you all soprts of things you THINK you want to hear . . . . all you want.
But is that ATTRACTIVE to you???
Take your pick . . there are too many of the out there.
ENJOY! I hope you and your DOORMAT will be very happy together.
AND FYI -->> Just because a man doesn't choose to swallow every single pill you try and feed him, doesnt make him a "JERK".
You asked for a "serious" answer. . . you got it.
SERIOUSLY.
:)
2007-07-01 21:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes their are guys out their who arn't jerks I know we don't seem anywhere but we are most likely to be the shy ones or the ones who are not very popular, I know for a fact that I don't want to be in a realationship unless I thought I might end up marying her someday...So yes we are around you just have to know where to look...
Good luck
-Moose
2007-07-01 21:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Moose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,
i am one of them but there are very few i have no intrest in sex until alot later in a relationship.
2007-07-02 01:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even better. I can be your friend, and just never get serious.
Just friends.
No strings, no sex, nothing other than online conversation.
Hehe.
2007-07-01 21:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by SOULCRY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are jerk offs, even though it may seem that way.
2007-07-01 21:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by Pontius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, im a gorilla so i dont kno but im guessing
2007-07-01 21:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-07-01 21:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've only met a few. but yes there r.
2007-07-01 21:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Fayth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure there are, we are just few and far between.
2007-07-01 21:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋