Could you date someone without being attracted to them at all, but they have an amazing personality, (YOU ARENT ATTRACTED AT ALL) but they ar ean amazing person?
Just wondering...
2007-07-01 14:20:53 · 27 answers · asked by TexAss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah. The ones that are less attractive are usually less cocky and more humble. Girls who look for that are destined to be with those types of guys. Plus, as you get to know him you may realize that there are small things about him that make him insanely cute. :]]
2007-07-01 14:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the date may have started off with the intention of you looking for someone with the physical attraction but not finding that in this particular person. However, you may have found that this person's personality is the attractive thing about them. This sort of attraction does not necessarily have to be romantic.
And what you may discover to be even more pleasing is finding someone you can connect to on a deeper and more personal level and overcome the initial feelings of physical un-attraction.
So to answer the question, I do believe that you can date someone and not be physically attracted to them and later find that you are attracted to their personality later on if you give it a chance.
2007-07-01 14:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by niknik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could, but i have a hard time believing that relationship will go anywhere. There are always the "next levels" of a relationship, so if you're not the least bit attracted to the other person, then at some point it will become evident that you have to have both. Sure personality is a HUGE factor to consider a relationship, but bottom line is it's NOT the only thing.
2007-07-01 14:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by CHIEFY_FAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true physical attraction. If the was a hot girl crap personality and a ugly girl with a great personality and I had to choose on. I would choose the hot girl. The stuff about having a great personality is a lie
2016-05-20 23:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but there has to be some attraction there. I mean he/she does not have to look like a model or anything, but you should have some physical attraction. Remember that beauty fades however and you have to be able to talk and have fun. He/she should be able to make you feel good and safe. In short you need some attraction, but it is not at all the only thing to look for.
2007-07-01 14:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there would have to be some attraction, but if there was even a little attraction on someone with a great personality, then id go for it!
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2007-07-01 14:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Justin M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, attraction is neccesary in a relationship, no it doesn't mean you are shallow. If you are not attracted to someone you are dating, it won't go anywhere, I tried it, thought I would get over the fact that I did not find the guy attractive, and it ended later on and hurt the guy. better to just be friends, because no matter how unattractive a guy/girl is, if you like him in that way, you will find him attractive.
2007-07-01 14:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Alexa's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is the attraction
2007-07-01 14:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if a person touches your soul and spirit because
you love them as a person you can later become attracted to them. Personality counts a great deal.I dated A guy,he was
really Gorgeous but, his personality was dull and very
unattractive,I had to let him go.Personality can make you
aware of deeper beauty. Physical beauty is on the outside,
what's inside the person?
2007-07-01 14:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I could if he was very funny, because someone with a good personalty becomes attractive from their personality and voice. There is more to attraction than what is physical.
2007-07-01 14:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋