My best friend of 6 yrs Just lost her 3 yr old daughter to a accident in march. Well, the babys daddy was in jail and she was bascilly a single parent. He went to jail for stupid stuff and was looked up for 10 months when this terrible thing happen to her.. It broken her down so much. Well, when the furnel came they let him out and he attended it and got to spend sometime with her atferwards...when he went back she was loney...He just go out in June and is trying to make things work out. I know they need each other because of the horrible thing that happen...ever since they he has been out they have been together staying with each other and going places together...even stayed at a hotel together. 1 night...I know she still loves him with all her heart. I don't blame her...She is my best freind and this has been hard on me as well....Losing this little girl was the worse ever. Some of the freinds we have are taking so bad about her...tellin to to leave
2007-07-01 14:00:29 · 6 answers · asked by BrownEyedGUrl:) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
IVE LOST A CHILD ALSO.I'M SORRY TO TELL YOU NOT MUCH IS GOING TO HELP.ITS DEFINITELY A TIME TO HEAL THING.JUST LET HER HAVE AS MUCH SPACE AS SHE NEEDS.AND LET HER KNOW SHE CAN CALL YOU IF SHE NEEDS YOU ANY TIME DAY OR NIGHT.GOOD LUCK SINCERELY,CIVALLMAN
2007-07-01 14:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by ˈsi-vəl-man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is. I'm guessing it has something to do with her being back with the baby's father. Some of your friends are talking badly about her. They're not very good friends. If they have a concern about how she's living her life they should talk to her directly. If they don't have the courage to do that, they should stop the talk. It's not doing anyone any good. As her friend, all you can do is be there for her.
You said he's trying to make it work. You said she still loves him. Give them a chance to work on their relationship. They both suffered a great loss and need each other now. If things don't work out between them all you can do is be there for your friend. If others are talking about her behind her back, call them on it. Challenge them to say it directly to her or to keep quiet. She's got enough to contend with now without being judged by cowardly "friends".
2007-07-01 14:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can know the pain of losing a child. If it brings this couple back together, more power to them. No one has a right to criticize someone in that much pain. Sometimes people talk bad about someone so they can trivialize the horror of what happened to her. I'm sure it makes you very mad, but that will only interfere with your grieving. You and the parents Need to grieve.
2007-07-01 14:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that. Well if they are talking bad about her maybe they truly aren't your friends. If you all pull together and even set any of your differences aside you will make it through this loss and be there for each other. At this tiime you will need all of the support you can get. Good luck and GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!. Once again very sorry
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2016-10-03 09:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-01 15:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋