What Does YOUR Religion Say About That?

Question

A Man Marries A Women And After Somedays, The Man Gives A Divorce to his wife.....BUT after a while he realizes that he was wrong and he shoudnt have done wat he did.
If He Wants To Marry his Previous wife(and the wife also wants to remary him), What Should he/they do?
Should he/they just go and marry? OR There's something else that your religion says about that?

Answer 1

remarry what the hell its a free country

Answer 2

First of all ... in the religion I follow .... you cannot just give a divorce. There is a waiting period of around 3 odd months ... after that either the man and wife return to each other or separate. This can be done twice after the third time, they must either live peacefully or divorce. If they divorce and than in the future they want to get re-married, it cannot occur before the woman marries someone else of her own free choice and then gets divorced, but this cannot be done just to suffice the rule, it has to be a pure and accepted marriage by the woman. If it is done for the sole reason to re-marry the old spouse ... GOD knows what we are doing and why :-)), and He will question us about our intentions on the day of judgement.

Answer 3

I could not understand which religion you are asking from. There is always flexibility in all the religions. There is no religion confining you of doing any good deeds but you have to abide by the law of the land. Take UK, you cannot divorce the way you portray, it has to be first separation through court, and then get divorce judgement with proper a/cs of earnings, assets being estimated and divided equally etc.etc. Same applies in States with Muslims. These countries do not allow Muslim Laws to be adhered too, you can of course get Nikkah (Muslims)or Pheray (Hindus), and Gurdawara ceremonies around Granth for satisfaction yet the courts do not believe these videos and these printed certificates as authentic documents under the law. That is why all the couples have to get married in the Registrar Office, appointed by the Court. Islamic law is only applicable in Islamic countries, Hindu laws in Hindu countries including Bhutan, Sikkim, Nepal, Siri Lanka. Muslim law is practised in Kashmir in your part of India. Why dont you refer to some Islamic Web to get an answer which religion you are talking about?

Answer 4

If the divorce is not through court / legal agency, one can do so, it is all ethical and as per regular course. Many times people fight, go away and again come together when the realise the folloy. The point is none should take such decisions impatiently or hurriedly and vimsically. It is sacred bondage between the two for full life term. It should be lead with proper understanding, mutual co-ordination, co.operation and sacrifice of the best things for other without reservation. In this case if both are willing, go ahead without hesitation.

Answer 5

In our Religion - Hinduism divorce was a known phenomenon, but due to vast spreading of western culture and various other reasons divorces are taking place freely and the family courts are overflowing with petitions. People have also developed and learned lot of unwanted things and ego is on the top now leading to divorce. People also take everything easily without giving importance to our old traditions.

Now speaking about the case told by you, there is no problem in remarrying for the couple but they should be prepared for separation again as they have failed to understand and preserve the sanctity of the marriage and divorced earlier. -

Answer 6

Hindu marriage is conducted as per epics, mantras are chanted by the Pandit when marriage is taking place and all relatives and friends are witness to the same. This marriage is legal as per law of the country and Hindu religion. But when it comes to divorce, then application is to be filed in the court. With court order only the marriage solemnised as per hindu religion is desolved. If the court lays some condition for some time for remarriage then it has to be obeyed. Otherwise u ve to seek courts permission to marry the same man. For other parties both the man & woman are free to marry without court's permission.

Answer 7

In Hinduisim there is no such provision for a divorce. Only the modern courts allow that. But as per religion it is not authorized. It is said that though u do not live together, your marraige would never become invalid. So if u want to live together again, there is no problem. Just go ahead and do that. but if u think another ceremony is required, just go to a temple and perform an Archana saying your wifes name in your Gothra or family name.

Answer 8

Hinduism does not forbid one to remarry the woman after she was divorced earlier.
Hinduism is a religion with very broad minded principles and does not interfere in most personal matters, unless they are injurious to others.

But a word of caution here.
When one is remarrying the same person after having divorced her earlier, why at all he divorced her in the first place.

A Marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman and it should be treated with respect it deserves.
Whichever religion to which one belongs, such fickle minded persons only bring dishonour to the very institution of marriage in particular and thereby to the society in general.

Answer 9

vedic religions and even any part of deviation from vedic religions, like Hinduism, Jainism , Buddhism .. . .. . . paganism etc etc have no restrictions for this act you described whatsoever.

But never the less, being unmarried without a sexual life and with pure celibacy is preferred over other ways of living in vedic religion.

but people who cannot follow the hard path , they can marry. and they can remarry once they feel they have made a mistake by divorcing. No ones approval other than Lords and the involved selves is also mandatory.

-- deito

Answer 10

The Bible says nothing about that. It DOES say that once you are together in marriage before God's eyes, you are always together. Being with a previously married woman if you were never her husband is actually adultery (and vice versa), according to Proverbs, which I find odd. It IS kind of common sense to not get married until you know the person though. Marriage has been really undertoned in its importance in this society, I think.

I think they could just renew their vows.

Answer 11

Happened to God:

"I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries." Jer 3:8

"Return, faithless people," declares the LORD, "for I am your husband." Jer 3:14

Likewise Christians are commanded:

"To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." 1Cor 7