ok i like this guy i dont think he knows how do i tell him and how do i know if he likes me
ps i think about him ALL the time could it be obsession?
2007-07-01 08:27:06 · 33 answers · asked by ☼ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're in several classes together and ive known hijm for like 4 years
2007-07-01 08:35:33 · update #1
yes
2007-07-01 08:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an obsession. More like a large drama bomb. If you like this guy dont pull a 12 year old girl stunt and ask a friend to ask him if he likes you. This will only cause hell for you because the chance if something not going wrong or pretty small. Something will get out. I know you wrote this abouta week ago so I dont know current updates. If you have not gotten anywhere. Try to get closer as "friends" with him. Then after a bit tell him how you feel.
Also you might not want to include telling him youve liked him for 4 years. ( that will freak him out ).
~ Jack
2007-07-09 08:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are infatuated - its a long term for "you have a crush"... nothing more. You can't love someone that you aren't together with or that you haven't even spoken to..... its impossible. Love is built on trust and security and communication within a relationship. Just go up to him and start small talk... within the classroom would be an ideal setting for that. Then see where it goes from there. Good luck!
2007-07-09 08:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the signs that he ah-dores u!!
1.) You can call him anytime, and he'll be there to pick up and listen to your most ridiculous problems
2.) He's always doing hard jobs for your parents our something without complaint (duh he just wants to be near you!!)
3.) If he tries on your friends good sides, (like cheering your bff on at her soccer match) thats totally another sign. Then your friends would actually TELL YOU to go out with him...he's getting to your friends to get to you!!
4.) He can tell you about really deep stuff and show you that he has a soft spot and can be very passionate about things...which is also totally worth falling in love with!
5.) He hates all the guys you like or mention...and possibly says, "You deserve better," HELLO! He's meaning to say that he's the one you deserve! lol
So does he match all of these? He is your man! You might just want to say, "So have ya ever thought of being more than friends?"
BEWARE THO! There are signs that sadly...he just wants to be your friend...nothing more nothing less
1.) He isn't afraid to be disgusting around you. a. k. a. burping
2.) He doesn't care if he hurts your feelings...like commenting about your "ugly" shirt
3.) He's always rambling on about your "hot" friend..that signs unfortunately ah-vious...he likes ur friend =[
Hope diz helps and good luck ♥
Da fab source for the signs that he's in/not in to you:
CosmoGirl! Issue February 2007
2007-07-09 07:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by j.adore♥pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..... first... is he seeing somebody? if not maybe you should tell him. dont be imbarressed. Never have anyone else tell him becuse they might say the wrong things. you dont have to tell, but if you think so then go girl! mostly ... he is not going to care. whoop de doo! a girl likes me! thats all he is going to think. try to keep it on the DL (down low) unless you want people to know. and ..... its not LOVE! love is something you get when you are in a relationship or somebody loves you back. (like you love your pet cat.) and in the end you will probably talk and become good friends! and just remember.... if he doesnt like you like a girlfriend, dont be mad. Maybe just ask him to be a friend. thats all you need is a good friend to keep you in line with difficult sittuations that happen in our every day lives!
ps: sorrry this was so long! lol :)
GREAT LUCK!!!
2007-07-01 08:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After four years you don't know if he likes you??? Your thinking about him all the time is a problem dear heart. Yes it could be an obsession. Why don't you have an honest conversation with him and find out so you can have your peace of mind about it.
Good luck.
2007-07-09 08:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all find more about this guy, if he is already paried or no, its been 4 years so wake up. You like him so you have to tell him that only wen you find out he is single. It is not obsession, it is LOVE. Tell him - I LOVE YOU. those words do magic. Once you know he doesnt have anyone around him, call him and tell him about your love for him. PS: You can get his number, cant you?
2007-07-08 22:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
crush, to build love,, real love,, it takes time. Obsession only after you are dating and seeing each other and you just think you own the person and no one else better try to get in the way,, your way. so it is a crush. those don't last forever. real love takes time to build up to it and it takes time to desolve it. but talk to him,, say hello to him and hear what he says back. Perhaps he has noticed that you have certain feelings for him and it may be the act that will break the ice. good luck.
2007-07-09 02:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by jorge e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. You got it. Obsession, infatuation, crush, whatever.
Love is passion, intimacy and commitment.
It also, by implication, means that two people should share that feeling. That kind of means that you have to know each other.
You haven't told us if you're dating, or if he's just in a class with you, or if you're working together or maybe you just have your binoculars trained on his window at night.
2007-07-01 08:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a crush right now but why don't u get to know him. just say something to him every once in a while so u can talk to him and jget the vibe on whether or not he duz like u. girl its sooooo not an obsession. u just like him and want to get to know him so ur prolley thinkin of ways u can talk to him and get to know him.
2007-07-09 08:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by babyashweed1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crush.
thinking about someone all the time.. doesnt realli mean that u love them. and its not an obsession. it just means ur thinking about that person alot. bhut the person who u think u love, u realli dont love, u love a guy that u've known for the longest time and think that ud never date him.. bhut uve known him for so long that ur realli close to him and can trust him with anything.
2007-07-01 08:33:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋