Ok well I'm confused. When we look in the mirror we always see something that you don't like, like you think your legs are too big or your eyes are too small. When we see ourselves is it really what we are seeing? Because I think my legs and butt are too big and my friend said that I have a perfect body.
2007-07-01 08:14:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ceeny 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Oh no when my friend and I were talking about girls who were really skinny she said "Well I think you have the perfect body"
2007-07-01 08:22:47 · update #1
Ceeny, Bless you, your friend may be right or she wouldn"t say it ! You are not coceded, that my dear is a very good thing !
2007-07-01 08:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's the thing. You are ALWAYS your own worst critic - because you will always seek the imperfections in yourself that no one else will ever find or care about. It's just human nature, everybody does this.
For example, look at the other girls around you. You probably find nothing wrong with them. But if you ask them, they will tell you, "Oh my lips are uneven, my eyebrows don't match, my thighs are huge..." And you will look at them and say, "Are you kidding? There is no way I would have thought that." It's the exact same story for you. What displeases you, likely no one else ever notices or thinks of that way.
I often find that I have huge legs too, but people often tell me how skinny they find me. I really wouldn't worry about it, if I were you. If others think you have a perfect body, be happy with yourself. I would rather that they think I have a good body and I don't think so, than the other way around!
2007-07-01 08:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times we have higher expectations for otherselves than what other people do. After all it is our bodies and we have to be happy with them. I am the exact same way and I drive my hubby nuts. Go with your friends opinion because we are always more critical of ourselves then other people are or do what my hubby says and do something about being who you want to be like going on a diet or exercising to take inches off certain body parts.
2007-07-01 08:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everytime we look in the mirror we see someone who is not perfect but everyone is perfect in their own way like i think im too short or that i have a small face but we always see someone else and other people see the real you so dont worry what you see is not exactly what you are its just the way you think of yourself
2007-07-01 08:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we people are simply made this way. There is always something about us that we won't like-looks or personality. But if you consider this friend of yours as a true, real friend, then maybe you should just trust him/her and forget about what you see in the mirror.
2007-07-01 08:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by *snowflake* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend could either be lying to you, or you have yourself blinded. This happened 2 me, too! I looked in the mirror, and I was like, "I'm SO fat." But then, I saw myself in a picture, and I was like, "I can't believe that's me! I'm so skinny!" I suggest you have somebody take a picture of you or take a picture of yourself to see. You shouldn't ask other people though, because sometimes they're afraid to upset you so they lie to you.
2007-07-01 08:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder:) Women are the worst critics of their own body. We see imperfection where there is none! Of course, there are a very few women out there who think they are the fairest of all in spite of all the imperfections. So, relax and accept who you are, the spirit, the mind and the body as you are blessed in this life:) I am sure you are a beautiful person...
2007-07-01 08:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by Nicknet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually our body image (how we picture ourselves in our mind and what we focus on in the mirror) is not accurate.
2007-07-01 08:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Caitlin (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never see you how you acually are cuz mirrors dont make you look as your friends see you. so your friends right...mirrors are not how you look
2007-07-01 08:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by Etoile XD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im like 108 lbs i have a nice body with cleaveage 34d-dd cup and curves.............. now if your so happy with yourself then why ask this question about your big butt........... seems to me your not happy... and you want to be skinny........ hehehe
2007-07-01 08:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋