Is it to soon to meet her parents?

Question

I've met this girls a week ago at a friends party, and we've been hitting it off great. She is in her early 20's and has lived out of her parents house before, but moved back to finish school. She is family oriented, and she says how she can make her own decisions, but still for some reasons takes the guys she's dating back to meet her parents. We aren't technically a couple, but we have been hanging out a lot going to dinner, movies, and she hangs at my house. We kissed and all that, but thats as far as it went so far.

Now she is asking me to come out and meet her parents, she says the sooner she does the sooner we can be together more. This really only took place the last 7-8 days, and now she wants me to meet her family. Is this way too soon? Is this normal?

Answer 1

Well to be honest, it sounds like she's taking it way too fast. I think you should just gently tell her that it seems like everything is going too fast and that you guys should wait a little longer before doing that. And when you meet the parents, you want to do it when you're definitely a couple.

Answer 2

Look man I think it is too soon cause you wrote that u are not technically a couple.I believe that you guys should decide what exactly you're doing,I mean if you both want to be together and technically be a couple then ok you can meet her parents but if you are just having a good time 2gether and you both want something not so serious then my friend do your thing and leave!This is my opinion.

Answer 3

Nothing wrong with meeting her parents. She probably has a close relationship with them. Might as well get it over with sooner than later.

Answer 4

i met a girls parents on the first date..it was a very unexpected surprise. but it didnt ruin anything

Answer 5

wait a while... she doesn't even know you yet