2007-07-01 08:06:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
They should, but most don't anymore.
2007-07-03 05:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was younger I didn't think all girls should, (just my future wife) Now I wish I would have been stronger and got to know the women instead of playing house and moving on when it didn't feel right.
Sex changes any relationship. it is best if you don't have sex, and get to know each other, learn how to communicate. Once you give it up, you can never get it back. After the first time it is easy to keep giving it sooner and sooner in a relationship, until one nighters and hookups are normal for you.
By keeping yourself for your future life long partner, 2 healthy come together instead of all the men and women each slept with all getting into the wedding bed.
would you risk getting a STD and than trying to find a mate who doesn't mind a spouse giving them a STD?
2007-07-01 09:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by blazes m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, of course this might sound like a bad response cause Im a guy but I am also a guy from a real life and although I do believe that the "v" is sacred, I don't believe that you should stall yourself waiting for marriage or whatever. I could see if you talking about the right guy. What if u get married to a guy that sucks in the bed? Its not all about the sex but a good part of any intimate relationship depends on sex. Life is too short. What if you never find the right guy you want to marry? You are cheating yourself. If it feels right, go with it. There is absolutly nothing wrong with premarital sex. This is not a fairy tale.
2007-07-01 08:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Layka L 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think that it would solve some conflicts in the future if they did keep it till wedding nite, you would not have to hear all those questions guys are wont to ask such as how was it with so and so ect. It would lessen the impact as well of performance issues
2007-07-01 08:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by billc4u 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would solve a lot of problems if both men and women did. I've only been with my fiance. We had sex for the first time AFTER we were already engaged...i kinda regret not waiting until the wedding night though.
2007-07-01 13:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by kamakazee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question should be:
Boys keep their....v til wedding night or not.
Now That is a question I have an opinion on.
2007-07-01 08:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think as long as you dont sleep around with tons of people and you are safe about it, it doesnt really matter. I grew up in LA, and wasnt even close to virginity when I met my husband, but sleeping with him was more special then any person i had ever been with. THat was part of the reason I knew he was the one. because there was that connection. I had a friend who waited until marriage and they got divorced a few months later because she said there was no intimate "connection" between the two of them. Sex is very important in a marriage, i personally do not think you should get married until you know that the two of you have that connection.
2007-07-01 08:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think you should keep it until you find your one special person...i didnt wait till my wedding night but i lost it to my husband..hes been my only
2007-07-01 08:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I think so. I know I am. I went to a wedding Friday night and both were devout Christians, and it made the wedding all the more special because it was common knowledge they'd waited.
2007-07-01 08:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Only if they want to. I really don't think a women is any less of a person if she's not a virgin at marriage. As long as she does not sleep around or use sex for the wrong reasons, it's fine.
2007-07-01 08:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the girl. It's best if she can be a virgin until her honeymoon. At least be a virgin as long as possible, waiting is just the smart thing to do.
2007-07-01 08:11:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋