months ago, a coworker flirted with me about us hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her and knew I developed a deep crush on him. B4 this I helped him get the ring. We had a convo about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird & that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and get a bf. Sumtimes i say hi and he acts like he doesn't care or just smiles. He doesn't say bye like he used 2
2007-07-01 07:48:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from him, he has a girlfriend. You could get in serious trouble. apologize, and if he doesn't accept it, let him be.
2007-07-01 07:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by SisterOfAChubbyBaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably acting like that because you called him a dog when he probably didn't even get your new year's text message. As if that was the case, he's wondering why you are suddenly acting out on him. You probably made him feel guilty about the fling you guys got going. He really has no reason to be mad at you so he still speaks but he is upset about the sudden zap-out on him. You just caught up in your feelings and over stepped your boundaries a little bit. That why things are weird between you two and feels that he has to take a few steps back. He does have that fiance overseas that he has to be mindful of and you made things crazy for him when you called him a dog, like y'all was in relationship. I don't think he hates u I just think he realizes how serious u guys can end up getting and how it can ruin what he has so he wants you to focus on some other guys while he gets himself back to where he supposed to be.
2007-07-01 15:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Layka L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you were right to call him a dog. That's like if you were in the store and you said hi to someone, if they didn't say hi back to you, you can't just call him a dog. You called him a dog for absolutely no reason. Now you could have called him a dog for not being faithful to his fiance, but he would be on your case too because you knew that he was engaged. I think you should have just left him alone when he said it would be best that you focus on someone else.
2007-07-01 15:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by hearts101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got a girlfriend overseas that he's engaged to! What were you doing even THINKING of getting with this guy. Stay away from him. And you called him a dog because he didn't text you back? Wow. He has a FIANCEE! Drop it and leave him alone. How childish could you possibly be? This is the most immature case I have seen today!
2007-07-01 14:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by heyheylet'sdoitagain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The epithet didn't convey what you meant. I wish, that instead of using insulting words, people would actually say what they mean. In any case, I would stay away from this person. Neither one of you seems to know how to communicate with the other.
2007-07-01 14:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The both of you are so childest and confused....you were wrong for calling him a dog because the term "Dog" is so old school and you had no reason to call him a dog
2007-07-01 14:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think in the beginning when he told you to it was best to focus on someone else he was trying to politely tell you to back off. give him some space and if he wants to pursue a friendship with you, he will.
2007-07-01 14:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by fluffymonroe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm both of you are in the wrong...one he has a girl he plans on getting married to and he shouldn't be trying to mess with you.. and if his girl found out about it... then she might not want to be with him and you were wrong b/c you fully knew he had a girl. so you got what you deserved.... n yes he is a dog and your a dog.
2007-07-01 14:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by pisces_dreamer06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu were'nt right to call him a dog, but he wasnt right in flirting w/ u and talking about sex. Thats all i have to say in this situation
2007-07-01 14:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Leelah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is devoted to his Fiance then you need to leave him alone.
Grow up and apologize for whatever you did and however you made him feel and move on.
2007-07-01 14:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by LiL' Momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋